Wish85
Pregnant with #2
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I swear I must have a metaphorical bald patch from ripping out my hair!
My 3.5yo who I might add is USUALLY extremely placid, mild mannered, sensitive, easy going, loving and an all around well behaved child has turned into a MONSTER and I have a feeling it's to do with the impending arrival of his little brother.
He has started saying things like 'mummy and daddy don't love me any more' and he refuses to sleep in his own bed because 'baby gets to sleep in our room'(in my belly)...he is being defiant, fighting me on everything, speaking back to me, telling me to go away if he gets into trouble for something ARGHHH!
Please reassure me that this too shall pass? I always make sure as soon as we get home from work/daycare I drop everything and literally give him my undivided attention for at least 30mins, plus more throughout the night in between cooking dinner, bath time, getting ready for the next day etc. He gets plenty of attention but unfortunately it seems like he's only after the negative kind lately.
It's really testing my patience and I just needed to get this out because I am not used to him being like this. He is also changing daycare next week to be closer to home for when I'm on maternity leave so that's adding to the whole thing. So many big changes for a such a small boy, I don't blame him but it's hard for me as well between a full time job, being pregnant, 2hr commute daily, running the household, not sleeping the best.....I guess it's not about to get any easier!
My 3.5yo who I might add is USUALLY extremely placid, mild mannered, sensitive, easy going, loving and an all around well behaved child has turned into a MONSTER and I have a feeling it's to do with the impending arrival of his little brother.
He has started saying things like 'mummy and daddy don't love me any more' and he refuses to sleep in his own bed because 'baby gets to sleep in our room'(in my belly)...he is being defiant, fighting me on everything, speaking back to me, telling me to go away if he gets into trouble for something ARGHHH!
Please reassure me that this too shall pass? I always make sure as soon as we get home from work/daycare I drop everything and literally give him my undivided attention for at least 30mins, plus more throughout the night in between cooking dinner, bath time, getting ready for the next day etc. He gets plenty of attention but unfortunately it seems like he's only after the negative kind lately.
It's really testing my patience and I just needed to get this out because I am not used to him being like this. He is also changing daycare next week to be closer to home for when I'm on maternity leave so that's adding to the whole thing. So many big changes for a such a small boy, I don't blame him but it's hard for me as well between a full time job, being pregnant, 2hr commute daily, running the household, not sleeping the best.....I guess it's not about to get any easier!