First test after early mc. 9 dpo

I am on my way to the scan, I have not slept and feel extremely anxious. I really can't go through another loss again.
 
My update is not great. I saw a gs of 15 mm with a nice yolk sac but nothing else. I am 6+2 today and I did not ovulated late. The last time we nd was 3.12. so I know for sure about my dates. My first vvvvf bfp was on the 13.12. I am going back in about a week but I am stopping my meds now as I don't want to have a false hope. Exactly the same happened last year in january and I am done. I don't really know what the next step is from now. I don't think there is anything else we could do. Fsh was 9.9 last year in May and my any was 11.2 in October. I think our journey is now over and we need to appreciate being lucky to have our dd. I am devastated.
 
Don’t give up hope. I had a scan at 6 weeks with my little boy and there was just a yolk sac no heartbeat, 2 weeks later I had a little jellybean bouncing about. He’s 3 nearly 4 now.

Thinking of you xx
 
Don’t give up hope. I had a scan at 6 weeks with my little boy and there was just a yolk sac no heartbeat, 2 weeks later I had a little jellybean bouncing about. He’s 3 nearly 4 now.

Thinking of you xx

And do you know when you ovulated that month? I am thinking about all sort of things like what if the baby was hiding behind the yolk sac. I am going mad.
 
Don’t give up hope. I had a scan at 6 weeks with my little boy and there was just a yolk sac no heartbeat, 2 weeks later I had a little jellybean bouncing about. He’s 3 nearly 4 now.

Thinking of you xx

And do you know when you ovulated that month? I am thinking about all sort of things like what if the baby was hiding behind the yolk sac. I am going mad.

I was tracking my cycle that month as i’d Just given up after having a miscarriage after trying for 6 months.
Keeping my fingers crossed for you xxx
 
Thanks Cupcake. My scan is on Monday and I am prepared for a bad news, I had absolutely no spotting this time and almost wish I already miscarried to avoid more scans or procedures.
 
It may have just been too early before. Many don't see anything at 6+2 but will do a few days or so later on. Fingers crossed for you :hugs:
 
A similar thing happened to me, it wasn&#8217;t that my dates were wrong, it was just at such an early stage a few mm&#8217;s out can make a massive difference! We didn&#8217;t see anything in our first scan, went back 3 days later to see fetal pole & HB x GL <3 xx
 
I did not have my scan yesterday, started to bleed very heavily with huge clots on Monday morning. I rang my fertility nurse and decided to stay at home, it was awful but I believe it's now over. She said if I still bleed next week then go for a scan to see if everything is out, so for now I am just hoping for no more scans or procedures. I was very hopeful with this pg, my age and increasing fsh is against me and I think it's time to come to terms that my dd will not have a sibling. My oh still wants to keep trying, he wants to try ivf with pgs but I am just so tired. And how would that help? I feel like I have been pg more than I was not in last year. Thank you for all your support ladies and I wish you all the best. x
 
I'm so sorry :hugs: I don't want to give false hope or be negative but I would still go for a scan to make sure either way. If you definitely have miscarried then you need to make sure everything has gone, I'm sorry to sound clinical.
I hear what you're saying with being tired by all of this, I can imagine you must be. But would IVF be worth a try? You may have more success. I don't know your story, so I don't know of any fertility issues but you mention high FSH which indicates low egg reserve I think? It means your body is trying really hard to produce an egg each cycle I think? Could Clomid be worth trying out? It can help give you a much better ovulation I think. The phlebotomist who did my progesterone check said she'd been trying for the best part of a decade before she had her first and Clomid was what did the trick for her. Maybe talking to a fertility specialist is something you could look into before making any final decisions
 

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