Flirting with my boyfriend in front of me

[DJMooMoo79]

Seriously! I'm huge now, wearing maternity clothes, clearly pregnant. He's calling me babe the entire time, holding hands and kissing. And after his haircut, right in front of me, writes her personal cell down on the card in the black area (as an attempt to hide the blue pen writing) stating that if he has any "questions about his haircut or even need anything at all" to text or call her cell. And I'm just standin there like, wtf? Are you serious? Bless my hubby's heart he doesn't seem to even notice her attempt to get in his pants but my god!

I was furious afterward and hubby couldn't understand why. After I explained it, he's been on cloud nine just loving me being jelous as it doesn't happen very often. Which I'll let him have that, I know he wasn't paying any attention to her. But how disrespectful to me, to do that I front of his pregnant girlfriend! Did she really just look at me and think, "Psh, totally have no competition."

I would understand if I wasn't there, poor girl didn't know better, my man is a very good looking gentleman. It happens. But when clearly he is the father of my child? It was gross.

Sorry just needed to vent. Now I'm sitting with her personal cell on the card and can't help but wonder what to do with it now. Seeing how easy it was for her to give it out....

 

[gemstone]

Wow some ladies! I would txt it saying get some decorum woman! Tut tut, hitting on a pregnant woman's man in front of her is below low! Get some class! Tart! Lol
Hate women like that!

 

[DJMooMoo79]

Thank you! Just so disgusted right now

 

[gemstone]

Thank you! Just so disgusted right now

Some woman are like alley cats! Gross!
Just remember ur the 1 holding him at nite

 

[Kirsty3051]

You should have slipped her yours in case she ever needs any teeth removing.

Flirting never bothered me until I got pregnant. I don't know. I just find it really disrespectful to flirt with my partner while I'm sat there like a beached whale, baking up his child

 

[maisie78]

Omg that is so rude! I would definitely be tempted to post her number on one of those sites where women can offer no strings sex. Then text her and tell her that as she is clearly a sex starved skank you have done her a favour. Ugh can't stand women like that, just dirty (and not in a good way lol)!

 

[AP]

You should have slipped her yours in case she ever needs any teeth removing.

this amused me so much

 

[Anniebobs]

Flirting doesn't bother me, I find it pretty funny as my husband is usually oblivious anyway! But giving out her number is just skanky. She must be so desperate if she's trying to get with a clearly loved up guy!

To be honest I wouldn't do anything with her number though. She clearly needs pity!

 

[ajlj1126]

That's funny you say that! DH and I were at a friend's house and a friend of their's, whom we had never met, started talking to DH. She had a 2 year old son. DH was talking about his kids and she said they should set up a play date & get to know each other better. I was literally standing RIGHT THERE (granted, I was talking to someone else, but I could clearly overhear) and DH said sorry, I'm married, and she said (AND I QUOTE) "That doesn't matter to me if it doesn't matter to you." I wanted to skin her! But instead I just walked up to him and kissed him quite provocatively right in the middle of her next sentence to him. She rolled her eyes and huffed off. It felt sooo good!!

 

[sandilion]

Unbelievable .... I would be sooo angry as well OP!! As a ex hairdresser myself, it is completely not necessary to need customers to call you with questions about the hair cut. What an absolute scrag!

 

[sandilion]

That's funny you say that! DH and I were at a friend's house and a friend of their's, whom we had never met, started talking to DH. She had a 2 year old son. DH was talking about his kids and she said they should set up a play date & get to know each other better. I was literally standing RIGHT THERE (granted, I was talking to someone else, but I could clearly overhear) and DH said sorry, I'm married, and she said (AND I QUOTE) "That doesn't matter to me if it doesn't matter to you." I wanted to skin her! But instead I just walked up to him and kissed him quite provocatively right in the middle of her next sentence to him. She rolled her eyes and huffed off. It felt sooo good!!

OMG! What's wrong with these idiots?!! Nice move on your behalf though

 

[jzgrace]

You should have slipped her yours in case she ever needs any teeth removing.

Flirting never bothered me until I got pregnant. I don't know. I just find it really disrespectful to flirt with my partner while I'm sat there like a beached whale, baking up his child

LMAO! That was a good one!

 

[jzgrace]

Wow! What a dirty butt she is! Pathetic and desperate.
My husband and I were at the mall and one of the girls working in the store kept stareing at him when she walked by trying to make eye contact. Going back and forth from the dressing room to clothing racks. And every time she came back she went out of her way to walk right by us. Still staring every time. She looked at him then me then back at him and smiled at him this happened at least 6 times and every time she walked away she shook her hips from side to side (you know that 'im trying to walk sexy' way that girls with NO confidence walk?) I know my husband is good looking. He is also a musician in this tiny town and knows everyone. All the girls flirt with him. But complete disrespect when a girl makes it a point to ignore a mans wife standing next to him and makes googly eyes trying to get his attention. My husband wouldnt even look twice at a girl like that, so we both get a laugh about it when things like that happen. Some women are clueless as to how slutty they look and even more clueless as to how aware men really are of their utter desperation. Its hilarious if you ask me.
That slutty hair stylist was completely unprofessional, and desperate in her attempt to steal a pregnant womans man! If you do anything with that number you should call her and call her out on her pathetic attempt, maybe it will be a lesson learned for her.

 

[lala222]

oh this bothers me so much, at any time, but definitely more when I'm pregnant and feeling a bit insecure. I would have straight out told her off, but that's just me lol. Rip up that card with her number and toss it and never go back there for a haircut!! lol

 

[lala222]

and as sad as this is, I actually think some girls enjoy flirting MORE so with our OH's when we are huge and pregnant, its like they make themselves feel hotter or better than us or something? which is just pathetic!

 

[AMB1216]

lol this is awful and hilarious at the same time, I've had people (women and men alike) flirt with my husband. No one has ever gone as far as to be blatantly obvious or to give him a number, at least not while I'm there. There was a girl he worked with who was super into him and everyone saw it. I've never met her but she would text him at night for the most random reasons like to ask if he had 10 dollars she could borrow but he ignored her texts and I haven't heard from her in quite a while (she's also married) she even went to him and told him when she found out she had an std. Like uhm does my husband really need to know that??? But regardless she's pregnant now and I guess has left him alone. He doesn't talk about her anymore. (he'd always come home and tell me stuff about her) I never thought that he was messing around with her because I know my husband loves me to pieces and he's not a cheater (plus shes got an STD) but it bothered me that she was married, she knew he was married and she still was trying to get with him. Although I still poke fun at him for it, saying she's his girlfriend and stuff.

Its really funny that girls flirting with him don't bother me much anymore, I'm super jealous and before we got married I'd give anyone who even smiled at him a dirty look xD

 

[DJMooMoo79]

Thank you ladies! Reading all these stories has definitely helped me cool down

 

[littlefishygg]

It is shocking what some women get up to isn't it!
My OH is a waiter and he has been left numbers by women on dates before when their date is in the bathroom etc and he has been left numbers by women he has already been talking to about the fact that we have a baby on the way (he likes to mention it in conversation because we find it improves his tips hahaha). There is also another waitress at his work that is really flirty with him and has admitted to him that she would make a move on him if he was single. I think that is a strange thing to say to someone you know is in a happy relationship with a child on the way.

But yeah some people have no class!

 

[MummyLaura93]

I would have definitely text that number and said a couple of things. What a silly, disrespectful woman! x

 

[ToughhGal]

I had a bunch of really young teen girls hit on my OH. The type of teens who clearly have no self respect. I just simply made my bump more obvious and asked "are you ready for something like this?". They all walked off!