FOB sees LO on a weekly basis but his Mother wants LO for extra days on top!

[cutebowsxx]

FOB gets LO all day from 10am-8pm twice a week on his days off, and gets him overnight 2-3 times a month. I find this heartbreaking enough, but I have no other choice than to let LO spend time with his Daddy.
However, FOB's Mother wants LO to herself at least one extra day a week! Its not as if she doesn't see LO, as FOB lives with his parents. If I was to allow her to have her own way, that means I wouldn't see LO at least 3 days a week! (And 4 days a week when he stays overnight with FOB!!!!) Surely this is a bit unfair?!
I'm a SAHM for a reason! Not to hand my son over to them more days a week than what I would get him for! I'd never stop LO from seeing his grandparents.. I'll obviously allow them to have him occasionally - Just like its the same with my parents!
(This is a recent split between me and FOB.. within the last month. We used to live together, on his wage, just in case anyone's judges me )
So what's everyone's thoughts and opinions on this situation? Do you think I have a reason to feel upset.. annoyed.. slightly angry?!

 

[fairyflowers]

nah, if she wants to see him she can see him in his time! stand ya ground!

 

[teal]

Agree with above, she can see him on one of his days surely xx

 

[BrokenfoREVer]

She can see him in fobs time. Stand your ground. You are mummy

 

[cutebowsxx]

Thanks all.. That's what I thought too xx

 

[Kate&Lucas]

She is asking a lot. As you say she sees him anyway. I'd point blank refuse, if she wants time alone with your LO she can work out an arrangement with your son. Did she have him alone every week before?

 

[Ceejay123]

Lol! No! Let her see him when your OH has him. I'm still with my OH, and I wouldn't even let my MIL / Mum have my LO a day a week. x