fob threatening please help!

[dawnmichelle]

hello all i have a 20 week old son and a 8 year old daughter (9 on sat) the fob of my son tries to control me and treats me like a child, he hasnt got any other children and didnt know anything about kids until i helped him change a nappy, i wont babble on because this will be too long ill just get to the point, I let him see our son twice a week but he came over friday and gave me this info all about brain development in babies, which is all about how to interact with your baby stuff i already do and all normal stuff you do with kids, it really got to me because it made me feel like i didnt know what i was doing if you know what i mean? i told him how i felt and about other things that he has said, and i said i was thinking about a contact centre.
Any way he sent me a email saying if i try and stop him seeing dylan he will pay every penny hes got to apply for custody and get the best legal team to go thru my daughters school records, doctors files and stuff to try and say im an unfit mum, i dont take drugs, dont drink, dont smoke, never been involved with social services, my children are fed and dressed well, im breastfeeding dylan and have done exclusisvly from birth.

is he having a laugh or would he get custody? hes not on the birth cert nor did he want to be, he gives me £25 a week. I really dont know what to do, it seems every time he cant get his own way he makes these threats. thanks in advance for any advice xxxxx

 

[lal]

He can't do that. Also though, I don't think you need a contact center, if he is just a know-it-all. I'd try to just shake that off. But regardless, it doesn't sound like you're trying to stop him from seeing your son, and he doesn't have any reason to take custody...sounds like it might be overreactions on both sides, which I do too. Will probably die down with a little time. But don't worry, that is unrealistic of him and from the sounds of everyone else's stories on here, he'd never even try to do anyway. These guys love to threaten but when it costs $ and they realize how unlikely their case is, it goes away.

 

[kirst1805]

He can't do it, Even if he did try to 'prove' you are an unfit mum which you are obviously not, he'd probably be laughed at.. not literally but ykwim.

He's overreacting, he may threaten but thats all he'd do, Just shrug it off hun.

xx

 

[Rhio92]

hun
No advice sorry, but I feel better reading the replies as FOB is just the same!

Try not to worry, PM me any time xxx