My ex-OH and I were wonderful together. Then I fell pregnant and although I was not ready for another LO, he was over the moon. We had a life plan mapped out, everything was perfect. Then I lost the baby. Things just weren't right between us after that. I was hurting so bad and I couldn't even look at him because all I saw was the life we should have had. We ended up calling it quits. When we see each other it's bitter sweet. We don't really know how to act like just friends, we never have. Well now I'm working with him on a seasonal job and it's unbearable. I've been really down lately because my 20 week scan should have been last month, I should have reached V day last week, we should be moving into our place this month. But none of that is happening. Don't get me wrong, I have a wonderful boyfriend now, and I care about him a lot, but it makes me so sad seeing my FOA every day interacting with children (we work a santa set) Yesterday was really hard. We had two different people ask us how long we've been together and when we said we're not they laughed and said, "Oh you will be soon!" Or something along those lines. I get it. We have good chemistry. Now stop. Then, right as we were getting ready to close, this woman came in with her son and she was pregnant. Okay, no big deal. Then she mentioned how she's due March 1. My due date. I tried talking to him about it tonight but he wouldn't really talk about it. He just kept saying things like, "Life isn't fair, we just have to accept it. We didn't last anyway." We didn't last because I was grieving and pushed you away! I just want him to say something like, "I think about it often" or "I wish that hadn't happened" but all I get is him making excuses! For those of you who aren't with your FOA, do you find they're more hesitant to talk about it with you? And how do you face them now?