For those with multi children of the same sex ..

[future_numan]

Do you feel the pressure that this one HAS to be of the other sex ??

I am the mother of four beautiful DD's , and since announcing this pregnancy all ppl ever talk about is wanting it to be a boy.

I wouldn't mind if this one is a girl also. I am not really sure i want a boy but I would love him or her either way..

We are going for our gender scan in a few days and I can't help but feel stressed about it.

 

[Coxie]

I don't think I felt pressured, like any of us have a choice in the matter. I have a DD and people would say now I can have one of each if I have a boy. I honeslty wanted another girl but found out we are having a boy. As long as the baby is healthy that is all that really matters.

 

[future_numan]

I agree 100 %

 

[Garnet]

I don't feel pressured in your type of situation because I have 2 of each but I think it will send my 24 year old daughter over the edge if I have another girl....

 

[mtnprotracy]

I feel frustrated. We have 3 boys (16, 15, and 12) and if I hear how this one "has" to be a girl one more time I'm going to scream. I'll be thrilled with this baby regardless of the sex. I think what gets on my nerves most is that people think we're only pregnant because we don't have a girl....I totally understand where you're coming from .

 

[mommylam]

I have 3 boys and we also get from everyone that they "hope" we have a girl this time. I'd love a daughter but I love my boys and if the baby is healthy.....that's the most important to us. I get annoyed that I feel like everyone will be disappointed if we have another boy......our boys are awesome! I'm sure this one would be too!!!!