MummyI
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What is it about being pregnant that makes everyone on the planet think that they are your own personal life coach? I am a generally laid back person, but I am quickly running out of patience with the apparent lack of self-control of just about everyone I encounter. Case and point below:
Woman at work: "Did your doctor do the tests for birth defects yet?"
Me: "No, we decided not to do that at all. We're actually going to a Birthing Center."
Woman at work: "WHAT? That's a terrible idea. What if something goes wrong? What if your baby dies?"
Me: "I've done a lot of research --"
Woman at work: "If you want to do this just for yourself, that's pretty selfish. I won't be surprised if something happens."
Anyone else dealing with this kind of malarchy? I mean, at what point do you stop "keeping the peace" at work (or anywhere, really) and tell people to buggar off? And what do you SAY to someone who is as big an idiot as this woman I was talking to??
Woman at work: "Did your doctor do the tests for birth defects yet?"
Me: "No, we decided not to do that at all. We're actually going to a Birthing Center."
Woman at work: "WHAT? That's a terrible idea. What if something goes wrong? What if your baby dies?"
Me: "I've done a lot of research --"
Woman at work: "If you want to do this just for yourself, that's pretty selfish. I won't be surprised if something happens."
Anyone else dealing with this kind of malarchy? I mean, at what point do you stop "keeping the peace" at work (or anywhere, really) and tell people to buggar off? And what do you SAY to someone who is as big an idiot as this woman I was talking to??