collie_crazy
1 Angel, 1 rainbow growin
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I go back to work today. I didnt want to but had to because I was going onto 'no pay' from wednesday and cant afford to live with no money.
Its been 11 weeks... I should be stronger and I thought I was but now I'm freaking out and I dont know what to do.
I am absolutely dreading walking in there and everyone looking at me... its that look of pity in peoples eyes I just cant stand it.
And lately I seem to be getting worse around pregnant people and newborn babies - I wasn't in the early days really because I didnt have much of a baby bump and didnt expect to have a baby at that time either but now that I should be 28 weeks and in my final trimester I keep looking at peoples bumps and wanting to break down and cry - and looking at their tiny little newborns and feeling my heart break into millions of pieces - why cant Emily have that?
I am on a phased return so will only be working for 4 hours today but I want to run away. I want to go to the cemetery and sit with her and hide from the world.
There is a girl in my team who was due only a month after me she is 24 weeks and has just found out she is having a healthy baby girl. I dont think I can look at her. How can I look at her when I want what she has/
Its been 11 weeks... I should be stronger and I thought I was but now I'm freaking out and I dont know what to do.
I am absolutely dreading walking in there and everyone looking at me... its that look of pity in peoples eyes I just cant stand it.
And lately I seem to be getting worse around pregnant people and newborn babies - I wasn't in the early days really because I didnt have much of a baby bump and didnt expect to have a baby at that time either but now that I should be 28 weeks and in my final trimester I keep looking at peoples bumps and wanting to break down and cry - and looking at their tiny little newborns and feeling my heart break into millions of pieces - why cant Emily have that?
I am on a phased return so will only be working for 4 hours today but I want to run away. I want to go to the cemetery and sit with her and hide from the world.
There is a girl in my team who was due only a month after me she is 24 weeks and has just found out she is having a healthy baby girl. I dont think I can look at her. How can I look at her when I want what she has/