from bonfire babies ttc to july bumps due!!

[Beadette]

Mooncake - how are you darling??? Xxx

 

[Mooncake]

Hi girls,

Just thought I'd let you know I'm out as of tonight.

I really hope that you all have a great pregnancy and would love to keep in touch to find out how you are all doing.

Lots of love,

Claire

xXx

 

[nb1984]

Gossipgirly - Get down to a Superdrug! I had to FRER tests, got a BFN then the next day used a SUperdrug early test and got a BFN! So the next day I used a FRER early test and still BFN!! I FINALLY got a positive on a FRER after 7 days when AF was due so I really dont have much faith in them!

In fact I POAS on Thursday before my scan just to be sure, I had a Tesco cheapy left that the line came up right away, not an early test at all, and the FRER still took about 2 mins to appear!

Mooncake - I am so sorry hun, please do stay in touch, would love to know how you are getting on xxxxxx

 

[Beadette]

Mooncake I am so so sorry for your loss! I'm thinking about you at this difficult time! keep in touch darling xxxx

 

[GossipGirly]

awww mooncake im soo sorry xxx

nb thanks for the info, my chart is also playing a crual trick on me, oh said i tossed and turned last night so that could be why its still high and I have a bit cold so that could affect it, I not getting my hopes up im just gonna wait for the witch and not waste any more money lol I dunno I just know she is coming xx

 

[wannabubba#4]

Mooncake -I am SO sorry. Please keep in touch and let us know if you are okay or if you need to vent or scream or laugh or anything xx

Beadette -I am feeling really bad today. Have tried eating crackers before I get up; nibbling on ginger biscuits, sipping ginger ale, eating small n regualr snacks, steering away from strong smells /odours, nuts (full of protein so sometimes help) Omg I dont know wht else to try -tbh its really getting to me today. Anyone ever tried the seaband things?? I think they are used for motion sickness. Wonder if they would help -I feel like I have got the worst hangover ever, and its been going on for over a week now and I am so sick of it. And whenever I do throw up (couple of times a day at least), its foamy bile which taste lingers for hours even after brushing my teeth, gargling etc.Yuck Sorry TMI xx

GG -I totally agree with nb -Superdrug's own HPT are definately the best -measuring only 10miu of hcg in urine so most sensitive on the market. Good for you if you are patient to wait -too many ppl (myself included lol test too early -I found out on w3 d2 -wtf?? -spent the next week convinced it was gonna be chemical) but fx'd the witch doesn't show and when you do test -pop along to your nearest Superdrug -tests are cheap too -only £5 or £6. Although sometimes, we just know she is coming dont we?
p.s I was convinced I was out last month, totally convinced lol -so you never know lol.

take care everyone xx

 

[nb1984]

I am totally with you wana - I was 100% convinced it hadnt worked either! Especially when I got a neg on the FRER as I thought they were the best too! The Superdrugs are usually on offer as well so you get 4 tests for £5 I think.

FRER are BOGOF in Boots but I really think they are not that fab!

Wana I am lucky in that although I feel rubbish I havent actually been physically sick in weeks, touch wood! Neither my Mum or sister were, my Mum had 3 of us and my sister has had 2 boys so fingers crossed its a hereditory thing!

I do feel nauseous the whole time though and plan to try the wrist bands, anything is better than doing nothing in my book!
I hope today is a better day for you xxxxxxx

 

[mrsbeanbump]

Mooncake- sooo sorry to hear whats been happening and for your loss. I second wanna if you want to chat or vent or anything just give me a shout.

Just worked my second like 12 hour day and I'm so exhausted I just wanted to pop in to say hi before I pass out on the sofa!! hopefully tomorrow won't be 12 hours but will be playing it by ear....

Have a good night all!

 

[Beadette]

I can't get out of bed!!! O need to go to work! So tired! I'm on my 3rd 12 hour day of the week! Bah! And working with offenders is exhausing at the best of times! I have no patience at moment!! Have a great day girls x

 

[nb1984]

Oh Beadette I do not envy you at all! I struggled enough to get up today!

Had a bit of a scare this morning, I was taking my dog for his morning walk, we have a 12 stone French Mastiff (think Turner and Hooch) and a dog went for him so he pulled me right over I fell onto my side so I am hoping that all will be fine.

If I start to get any pain later I will call my doctors. Oh what a pain in the bum!!

My MS and everything seems to be a lot better this week, just the tiredness in the evenings which is getting to me!

Hope everyone else is well!

 

[wannabubba#4]

nb -hope you are okay after your tumble -baby is still so tiny and protected just now so should be fine. Glad to hear your MS is easing a bit.

Beadette and Mrsbeanbump -I am so glad I have had this week off my work sick, not looking forward to going back on Monday but s'pose I'd better get back in there lol -cannot stay off forever. I work 12 hour shifts too, and am exhausted at the end of the day at the moment.

Well -I have not been sick once today (yet -touching wood lol) and the nausea has been bearable so far -hopefully this isn't the calm before the storm lol; I could just about cope if it was like this every day. Even better when it goes completely but I can at least function today. After being sick all yesterday morning and afternoon, I tell you its a welcome today

Have a good day ladies

 

[mrsbeanbump]

so... what a day!!!! Got a call from the midwife from the GP surgery today.... She was like 'just calling to see why you haven't called me to make an appointment so I can write off to the hospital?' And I was like hold on wait a minute - WTF!!!! The freakin surgery led me to believe they already sent my recommendation to the hospital. And I was like, how would I call you if a) I dont know who you are b) I've never been told to do that c) dont know the number!!!

Needless to say I'm sooooo angry about this because I called the GP again last week to ask why the hospital hadn't sent letter and they said they sent it on the 10th NOV - so obviously they were full of shite!!!!

So good news to the end of the story is that I have my first appointment with the midwife next Thursday. Dont' know what we'll do at the appointment but glad to have a day to look forward to none the less. Thinking about writing a letter to complain to the surgery though...

And I'm 8 weeks today wooohooo!!!

 

[Beadette]

Your just a day behind me Hun! Sorry your surgery have been so shit! I've got my midwife appt on Tuesday! So excited! I've felt less nauseous today but felt a bit dizzy at times! Am a little over emotional too! Crying at I'm a celeb tonight!!! The funny bits xxx

 

[nb1984]

Well the cat's out the bag, more like one leg out the bag but I don't think the rest will be staying in until Christmas. After my appointment on Monday I called my GP surgery and said 'as no one knows about this and you still have my parents address on file can you change it as I dont want my referral letters going to my parents house?' 'yes no problem.'

My Mum calls me yesterday, she opened a letter addressed to me by 'accident' she claims which states at the top 'pregnancy referral'.

She was so naff about it, we honestly must have talked for about 3 minutes before she even said 'congratulations' and her first question was 'so this ust have been a mistake'

I am just so 100% gutted, she is world wide known for being totally incapable of keeping a secret, I have gone over and over it with her at how important it is that absolutely nobody knows and she claims to understand.

I havent told hubby cos he is just going to freak out as he knows what a nightmare my Mum is, oh why is this so stressful!!!!

Otherwise the ms is back ahahaha! Well just the nausea and frequent weeing and tiredness so I am no longer too worried about my fall yesterday! xx

 

[Beadette]

Oh god! Now I would be complaining to GP surgery and would have been cross at mum for opening my mail! Luckily my mum is really good at keeping secrets! She has to tell
someone but she just makes sure it's no one who knows me or anyone I know - like her work pals! Lol!

I feel really ugly today, spotty, none of my clothes fit because of my bloated tum and I just feel poo! Luckily OH said the right thing this morning when I whinged and just said "don't be silly, your my sexy momma" lol! Far from it but at least he didn't say "yep you look shocking!" lol! X

 

[MilitaryMummy]

Hi ladies, so sorry i haven't wrote for ages!
Gossipgirl.... give it a few more days and see how you get on like all the others have said!
Mooncakes, i'm so sorry to hear about you're loss. Thinking of you hunni.

How is everyone else getting on? My morning sickness or should i say my afternoon sickness has now kicked in! Not good at all! lol

Other than that i am just soooooooooo excited as i have my 1st midwife appointment next week wednesday.... yay. proper excited about it.
Does anyone know what happens at the 1st one??? xxx

 

[wannabubba#4]

Well girls - been to my first GP appointment lol -a bit of a disappointment lol
At least now ,I have been referred to the community midwife unit and got a sickline for my work and well at least something has happened lol. But never had any bloods done, this is strange to me as everyone else who is preggers can tell you Hcg levels at different stages along the way and I have never even had any done.

Need to wait (impatiently) on my midwife appt now lol

ttfn xx

 

[nb1984]

MilitaryMummy - From what I have read they ask you about yours and your partners medical history, diabetes, blood pressure that sort of thing, then do a health check and take some bloods to check for various things and answer any questions you have.

Apparently it takes a while but you should learn a few new things! xx

 

[wannabubba#4]

nb - cant believe that happened Omg -you must be so mad. With doctors surgery and your mum both. If you think that she wont keep it quiet for you, then i would seriously consider telling those closest to you soon. You wouldnt want her to ruin it by telling them first, or for them to be upset cos they found out from someone other than you.

Militarymummy Hi - Sorry to hear the MS has got you, join the club yuegh!!!!

Beadette - that's so nice of your man to say that awww !!! I know how you feel lol -spotty, bloated tired puffy eyed lol very attractive NOT!! lol

xx

 

[nb1984]

I know! I am seriously mad! I havent called my doctors yet cos obviously I want to go back there so I need to make sure they know I am upset but not be rude if you know what I mean!!

I dont know what to do, I really, REALLY dont want to tell anyone before and I know hubby thinks the same. I am out with my best friend for dinner on Tues and my Mum is very close with her Mum so I may tell her then.

My Mum knows my sister is a nightmare with keeping things to herself (wonder where she gets it from!) so hopefully if she does tell someone she will limit it to someone that it wont get back, I can see her logic thinking that was ok. I am spending the whole day with my Mum tomorrow as we are going to France so I am going to hammer home that she cannot ruin this for me and fingers crossed she wont!!

Sorry your GP appointment was not all that fab, my GP didnt do bloods either but the lady who just booked me in for my midwife said they will so hopefully you will get some done soon wana! xxx