Talking about the future is actually the worst you can do for anxiety actually haha, don't think it would wash, to be free of anxiety the best it to be like him, very much in the present, shame huh?
I'm not sure about this. Getting obsessed with the future and not living in the present is bad, but with my anxiety I find being able to take "time out" when I'm stressed to think about (hopefully) happier times therapeutic.
My OH doesn't understand my need to think about the future either - he's too practical. I explained to him that my thinking/talking about it is not indicative of my wanting to pressure him or rush him, it's just my way of destressing and daydreaming. He is better about it now, though he still doesn't understand as such, he does now accept it.