xxembobxx
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Really forward planning here as I'm not due until mid December!
I really want a home birth (5th and last baby ) but OH works away during the week. I have fairly quick labours so even if I let him know when I get the first twinge or waters break it will take him at least 4 hours so I have to prepare for the fact he may not make it in time.
Has anybody else had to go it alone at home? I'm pretty sure I can manage but then I'm thinking about a doula. Do you have a doula in addition to a MW?
Also I have a LO who will be 18 months by due date, I would love him to be at home but I do think he is a bit young to understand what is going on. He's a good natured baby but he does get upset if voices are raised and although I am really quiet I don't want to have to be worried about upsetting him. And if I'm alone who will look after him?
I could ask mum to be with me but tbh I'd feel a bit uncomfortable her being there for the birth. I know she would love the opportunity and I'd feel a bit mean telling her to take LO out for an hour or so.
Any ideas on how to plan it all?
I really want a home birth (5th and last baby ) but OH works away during the week. I have fairly quick labours so even if I let him know when I get the first twinge or waters break it will take him at least 4 hours so I have to prepare for the fact he may not make it in time.
Has anybody else had to go it alone at home? I'm pretty sure I can manage but then I'm thinking about a doula. Do you have a doula in addition to a MW?
Also I have a LO who will be 18 months by due date, I would love him to be at home but I do think he is a bit young to understand what is going on. He's a good natured baby but he does get upset if voices are raised and although I am really quiet I don't want to have to be worried about upsetting him. And if I'm alone who will look after him?
I could ask mum to be with me but tbh I'd feel a bit uncomfortable her being there for the birth. I know she would love the opportunity and I'd feel a bit mean telling her to take LO out for an hour or so.
Any ideas on how to plan it all?