Me neither I never have listened to them
They have never got time for me, half of them are early twenties with no kids and half of them are late 50s who were advising totally different things to people like my mum etc.....
a bunch of jobsworths to cover the gov. arses if you ask me.
May I ask who advised you to introduce solids early? Or was it just based on your own observations? If so, what made you decide it was time?
I don't tend to listen to HVs either, I agree with you, but I also think that in some cases it is worth getting a "professional" opinion. I don't think NHS advice should be blindly followed, or blindly disregarded IYSWIM.
I went through many other routes for a few weeks, read my journal and march mummies thread if you want to. I didnt dive into light hearted and have been very upset over the whole situation hence my comments on here. I am still BF my son and even introducing formula to fill and settle him has been a hard decision. I am one of those who said no no weaning not until 6 months etc, but I was just stupid putting dates and times on things like that. It sets you up for failure. I have been through the teething issues and tried to sort that, night waking, more milk, feeding more often, expressing, darkness in the room, possible wind, et cetc the list is endless.
At the end of the day, my son is hungry. Last night he was fed 8oz at 9pm, drained my boob at 10. Had 5oz formula at 2am (OH was on duty), woke at 4.40am and drained my boob, then the other at 7am. I have no supply issues as I can easily pump off 10ozs no prob from both boobs.
Developmentally my son has this week started to roll over, sitting for about 5-10 seconds etc.... he sits unaided well. He takes the sppon from me and plays with the food himself, he is very interested in it and obviously wants to eat it.
I would never give my child food for the sake of it and to get him to sleep, it is a hard decision but I have made it this way and now he is more settled and happier in himself.
I just hate to be made to feel like a shit mother when I obviously am not and have done the best I can to eliminate the causes of his unsettled nights etc...
I have spoken to NO professionals..... the professionals to me are competent family and friends who have successfully brought up clever, bright, physically fit children who can advise me objectively and not make me feel like a failure for doing it.