U said earlier that they took the body away soon as you has him. They didn't let you hold him after you gave birth? And I know exactly what u mean on all of my reports my son is baby doe and that pisses me off he was born alive and feel that he should have A birth certificate but they didn't do one for him. I don't understand why they didn't. He was alive for at least an hour trying to breathe my poor little Elijah it broke my heart still does everyday ��
This hospital is not big on things like mementos, pictures, things of that nature, unless you have a "real baby." That is straight from the head nurse.
I've had losses at 16,18, and nearly 20 weeks. I'm not sure when they magically become real in the eyes of the staff.
I had Taylor at the hospital, and I had Anna and Auxano at home. With Taylor I was never given the opportunity to see him. I pushed him out then they took me to get a d&C. I was in shock, and didn't think to ask until later. Nothing was offered to me, not pictures or holding the baby or anything. They didn't even tell me if Taylor was a boy or a girl. I spoke to the head nurse later, and he said you can't tell the gender at 16 weeks-complete bollocks!
That's why I can say what Anna and Auxano looked like, but I can't tell you who or what Taylor looked like aside from a few ultrasounds.
I would rather labor at home for 18 hours and spend time with my babies than deal with insensitive staff. They think I'm crazy, but what does it say about THEM when I'd rather labor and deliver at home on my own than be around them?
This time they took Auxano away under the guise of weighing him. I asked another nurse how much longer, and he came back and said the body was in pathology.
If they call my Auxano baby doe I might flip. I asked the stupid dr to call the coroner like someone did last time, but of course, he didn't.
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