Got our results today - not good

[FJL]

We finally got the results of the 3rd sperm test today.

The motility rate has been our only problem, being at 15% then 30% and this last test it was at 1%...thats right 1%

As if that wasn't hard enough to take, we then find out that all other things in the test such as count,density, shape etc which were previously above normal are all now down way below normal...we're gutted.

We have a Drs appointment Wednesday to get a referal to a fertility specialist and that will then open a whole new chapter to this very hard journey...but hopefully one that will one day make us parents.

Thanks everyone for all your support, I just wish I was delivering good news

 

[shamrockgirl4]

 

[tashy100]

I'm so sorry.

Thinking of you.

(Would it maybe be worth getting a second opinion on that last result?)

 

[Jojo]

So sorry to hear this, hope the referral comes quickly for you
x

 

[FJL]

Thanks guys.

Tashy - I'm going to ask the Dr on Wednesday whether something could've affected that kind of a result. It is a huge decrease in everything. Does anyone know if its normal for it to fall like that?

At pathology when I dropped the test in, it was the same nurse as the last 2 times and she's really good. Wrote down some info then said she was going to put the sperm straight in the incubator and that the pathologist would test it in 1hr. I know that last time it was in the incubator for much longer before being tested and it was the best result yet. So I am hoping that maybe it was some kind of false reading...??

We hate this Dr that we're going to see but he is so easy to get into and we just want things to get moving. The specialist I want to see is about 5hrs drive away but we have family we can stay with. He is very good, a lovely man and he does do IVF too if we need to go down that road.

I'll let you girls know how the appointment goes...this Dr has no sympathy at all, last time he told us we'd need to do IVF then asked us why we looked shocked and 'so are you guys upset are you?' IDIOT!!

 

[wannabmum]

I'm so sorry u are going threw this FLJ, I understand how u must be feeling when we got oh results only to be told there was no sperm I was ripped apart, I know how difficult this journey is and believe me it will all be worth it when we can finaly hold our precious miracles.

Stacey xx

 

[FJL]

I've been doing lots of reading tonight on Australian IVF clinics and with our problem the proposed treatments etc. I *think* we'd be looking at IVF or ICSI, they may just want to try IUI first though.

So who knows Stacey, maybe we might be going through all those awful hormone injections together!

 

[skiwi]

oh hun i am really sorry, can anything affect it, stress, maybe he was under the weather when he gve his sperm..... just hope everything works out for you, good luck hun x

 

[Arcanegirl]

Oh FJL im so sorry.
I would definatley get a second opinion on the test, it seems such a drop from the last one.
I know you will get there, one way or another

 

[Samantha675]

I am so sorry.

 

[Vickie]

So sorry to hear the results. I would seek a second opinion if I were you though as that seems like a really dramatic drop

 

[ElliesMum]

I dont really know much about this side of things but it does seem like a real dramatic change. I would ask for a second opinion too.

Sorry to hear you have such a swine for a doctor.

Kepp your chin up, think positive

 

[Carolina]

so sorry fjl that doctor sounds like a real *&$^Y()# i would def try and get a second opinion good luck!

 

[akcher]

I'm so sorry to hear the bad results. Definately get it retested. Hugs.

 

[Tiffers]

AW hun! I am so sorry! What a rude doctor to be so insensitive. Best of luck hun!

 

[Mojo]

i am so sorry to hear about your test results fjl, i agree with the others to get a 2nd opinion, esp as hubby has been taking medicine and acupuncture to increase the results, they do sound a bit iffy to have dropped so much. you are so supportive of him and it's really nice that you are both work working on this together and supporting each other.

there is something i have always wanted to tell you but never got round to it and that is the pic in your avatar is AMAZING, the way you are holding each other is so gentle and you seem both caught up in each other like nothing else matters at that moment. really beautiful and emotional picture

 

[Suz]

 

[FJL]

Thankyou Mojo! That is so sweet to tell me that!

Yes, we would stand by each other NO MATTER WHAT. We've constantly been tested since we've been together, we've had to endure a lot as a couple. I believe that most couples would not have survived half of the strain that outside people and circumstances have put on our relationship, nothing or no one can ever break us apart - especially this!

We always say that come what may, we have each other and that is the most important thing in the world

 

[mayz83]

sorry to hear such a bad result.
im sure ur love and strong bond will bring u thru this and result in a little mess maker. *hugs*

i agree with mojo about the pic its beautiful and u look stunning

 

[Mynxie]

(((hugs)))