OnyxSnowfall
2 boys and a girl!
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Not the first instance but this morning: We were headed to a grocery store... stopped in front at a red light. It turns green. A couple of seconds go by when I look over at him to see why he was not going. Well well, he was captivated by a blonde next to us, on his side. Literally just staring. I tell him the damn light is green. He finally breaks his gaze then starts driving.
Ugh I don't want to put up with this. Nothing seems compelling enough. He literally denied it but then said it is worse when we are not together (i.e I should be content with how much energy he expends into resisting gawking as it is). Meh seriously f*ck this. I know I might be overreacting but this sucks. I do not disrespect him like this and even in his absence I have other interests/goals I prioritize over frivolous meaningless interactions/gazes at/flirtatious exhanges with strangers and thus I still "behave".
Gahhh is anyone else dealing with this? I cannot wait until I get bigger and it likely gets worse .
I know men are supposedly more visual but I have been with men that never treated me this way... maybe they would have if I was pregnant with their baby?! Ah but my OH has done this for a long time among other things. Some I have left him for in the past. Bahhumbug.
Ugh I don't want to put up with this. Nothing seems compelling enough. He literally denied it but then said it is worse when we are not together (i.e I should be content with how much energy he expends into resisting gawking as it is). Meh seriously f*ck this. I know I might be overreacting but this sucks. I do not disrespect him like this and even in his absence I have other interests/goals I prioritize over frivolous meaningless interactions/gazes at/flirtatious exhanges with strangers and thus I still "behave".
Gahhh is anyone else dealing with this? I cannot wait until I get bigger and it likely gets worse .
I know men are supposedly more visual but I have been with men that never treated me this way... maybe they would have if I was pregnant with their baby?! Ah but my OH has done this for a long time among other things. Some I have left him for in the past. Bahhumbug.