Had enough...

[gemhal87]

Does anyone ever feel like just giving up? we have been trying for no.2 scince my son was 6 mths old and he is now 3! I am sick and tired of getting af every month and feeling this way. We have tried everything i can think of and nothing seems to work. I know i should be happy cos i have my son but i would really love for him to have a little brother or sister before the is a huge age gap between them. I feel really guilty all the time cos all i can think about is having another and i cant seem to concentrate on any thing else.

sorry if i seem ungratrful that i have just him i am not. my son is my world.
Just needed some one to talk to who is in the same boat as me and wont think i am stupid.

Good luck to you all xx

 

[PROKA]

I have a friend who tried 2 years for the 2nd baby and eventually they gived up. 3 years later she got pregnant.

So I don't know what to say that's life

 

[popchick75]

I completely understand. We've been trying for 9 years...unexplained secondary infertility. It's so all consuming....it's just something that you can't go after half-hearted when you want it so bad!

Don't worry about the age gap. My daughter is 11. There is a 20 year age difference between myself and my younger sister!