lexey_7
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I had my booking in appointment but it didn't go well on the wanting a cesarean bit left feeling quite deflated and almost had a cry.
She was a nice midwife but said that they're very pro-vaginal birth, it's safest for baby and highly unlikely I will be able to have a section. She was trying to push me to have baby in the midwife led unit which I don't want and didn't think would be an option anyway as the appointment went on she said about seeing the consultant and despite what she thinks I need to push for my wants but I'm not very confident can't see me being able to ask for it if everybody else disagrees. Her suggestion is that I be referred to somebody that can go over my last birth and work through any issues that worry me and have my husband do perennial massage!
Feel a bit sad, my best friend is a few weeks further along than me and I went with her to her booking in and midwife talked a bit to me too, she was all for a section in my situation and told me to stand my ground wish I'd gotten her! Xx
She was a nice midwife but said that they're very pro-vaginal birth, it's safest for baby and highly unlikely I will be able to have a section. She was trying to push me to have baby in the midwife led unit which I don't want and didn't think would be an option anyway as the appointment went on she said about seeing the consultant and despite what she thinks I need to push for my wants but I'm not very confident can't see me being able to ask for it if everybody else disagrees. Her suggestion is that I be referred to somebody that can go over my last birth and work through any issues that worry me and have my husband do perennial massage!
Feel a bit sad, my best friend is a few weeks further along than me and I went with her to her booking in and midwife talked a bit to me too, she was all for a section in my situation and told me to stand my ground wish I'd gotten her! Xx