Ash_P
Due Feb with 1st
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had to go to hospital earlier, continued to get sharp pains so went to my gp told her about the pains, how I aint felt movement since saturday, and about the "leakage" I was getting. So sent me straight up to maternity.
They did an emergency scan, and thankfully baby was fie, it was lying sleeping sucking its thumb. Still aint had any movement but at least i know its ok.
I contacted FOB to let him know (as last time i didnt tell him, he went mad)
So I text him telling him I had to go for emergency scan, and my sister rang him several times, NO ANSWER!! and no reply to the text.
4 hours later!! I got a text saying is everything ok. My sister went mad, she said about how when the time comes and im in labour and she needs to contact him to let him know, and he doesnt check his fone, etc etc
She sent him a message saying.....
"Im not being ignorant... Well actually I am! But my temper is f*cking bouncing with u, Good thing ash hadnt gone into early labour. Whats gonna happen when she does go, and I cant get hold of u, and u miss ur child bring born. I`ve never been so f*cking frustrated. Seriously, I know u`s arent together anymore but I thought U had more in u to at least be supportive towards her. This is such a big deal and Im not being rude, but this could be a once in a lifetime opporunity for U, cause lets face it, Ur not getting any younger. U honestly need to help her out abit more seriously"
She forwarded the text on to me, long but true. He just replied saying, "I will be there when she goes into labour."
I honestly thought that after the pram shopping on saturday, and his excitment for the baby coming, he was starting to realise there was a wee life that we have created, coming into the world soon. I dunno why the hell i bother, or even why I give him the benefit of the doubt.
But my sister is so angry, I think cause she seen how scared I was, and she has said that if he continues to treat me like shit, and show such lack of concern for baby, then she is refusing to let him near the hospital when I go into labour, as she doesnt want me stressed out. I dont blame her tho, i know shes only looking out for me.
They did an emergency scan, and thankfully baby was fie, it was lying sleeping sucking its thumb. Still aint had any movement but at least i know its ok.
I contacted FOB to let him know (as last time i didnt tell him, he went mad)
So I text him telling him I had to go for emergency scan, and my sister rang him several times, NO ANSWER!! and no reply to the text.
4 hours later!! I got a text saying is everything ok. My sister went mad, she said about how when the time comes and im in labour and she needs to contact him to let him know, and he doesnt check his fone, etc etc
She sent him a message saying.....
"Im not being ignorant... Well actually I am! But my temper is f*cking bouncing with u, Good thing ash hadnt gone into early labour. Whats gonna happen when she does go, and I cant get hold of u, and u miss ur child bring born. I`ve never been so f*cking frustrated. Seriously, I know u`s arent together anymore but I thought U had more in u to at least be supportive towards her. This is such a big deal and Im not being rude, but this could be a once in a lifetime opporunity for U, cause lets face it, Ur not getting any younger. U honestly need to help her out abit more seriously"
She forwarded the text on to me, long but true. He just replied saying, "I will be there when she goes into labour."
I honestly thought that after the pram shopping on saturday, and his excitment for the baby coming, he was starting to realise there was a wee life that we have created, coming into the world soon. I dunno why the hell i bother, or even why I give him the benefit of the doubt.
But my sister is so angry, I think cause she seen how scared I was, and she has said that if he continues to treat me like shit, and show such lack of concern for baby, then she is refusing to let him near the hospital when I go into labour, as she doesnt want me stressed out. I dont blame her tho, i know shes only looking out for me.
x
she's definately looking out for you and LO. But to reply hours later?!! Your sisters text message was right! 
Not good! Learned my lesson though! Not to let FOB get to me so much because it could put you and LO at risk! xx
