Has anyone had people trying to force them into abortion?

[Novbaby08]

I tell them to go fuck themself. Let them think what they want they don't know. And its your baby not theres.

 

[Ribeanaaa--x]

Right well i fell preggs when i was 16..had been with tha dad for about 18months..EVERYONE thought it best that i had an abortion..my family..his family..him..
Although my family never pushed me into it as such..they would not shut up going on & on & on about it. Day in, day out it was all i heard.
The babys dad on the other hand did the usal "ill kick it out of ya".."ill never spk to you agen".."get rid of it & we can sort everything out"..
Well in the end i did give in & i did have an abortion..
It was the worst decision i have ever made in my life. As for the dad i f*cked him straight off, why did i wanna be with some1 who put me through that?
Well cut a long story short...i ended up with depression, a criminal record & abit of a drink prob!
Not tha best year of my life.. but thankfully its all well behind me now!

Although when i found out i was pregnant this time it was a whole different story thank god..
My family never wanted to see me go through what i went through before, & there as excited as me about this baby. & the babys dad was excited at the beginning although has now done a disapearing act, but f*ck him!

Sorry i no its a bit of an essay..told my life story practically! Haha....
But i just wanna get across that no1 noes what is gonna happen in life you gotta make your decisions & pray for the best..
My family thought an abortion was best for me...they now no it clearly wasnt..
My && my babys dad were happy about this pregnancy & he wanted her...he now doesnt..
You cant predict whats round the corner, so make the decision for you & for nobody else..if they love you they'll be there for you...if they dont f*ck them you dont need em.
xxx

 

[heather91]

'The babys dad on the other hand did the usal "ill kick it out of ya".."ill never spk to you agen".."get rid of it & we can sort everything out"..'

That doesn't sound like the usual to me Sorry you had to go through all that. x

 

[Ribeanaaa--x]

'The babys dad on the other hand did the usal "ill kick it out of ya".."ill never spk to you agen".."get rid of it & we can sort everything out"..'

That doesn't sound like the usual to me Sorry you had to go through all that. x

I meen the usal little boy approach to life! Not what any decent respectable boy would do obviously! Lol. x

 

[Jkelmum]

At 14 I found out I was preggers and until they knew how far along I was which was 2wks from finding out until scan ..my social worker my foster mum my ex all wanted me to get rid as they put it stating I wouldnt have a life and neither would my baby ...anyhow i had my scan and i was 30 wks preggers so screw them i was havin my baby then they tried forcing me to put him up for adoption and i sed after people going on and on at me I said if after 6 months i cant cope u can take him yes such a little girls answer anyhow the 6 months was up they came to asseess me and basically makin out i didnt kno what i was doing my foster mum threw her out and i dont regret another thing ! My son is now a strapping 13 yr old grade A student so when people say i dont look old enough to have him as he is taller then me I say I am not but he is a great accheivment !

So long story out of the way do whats in your heart not what anybody is saying if i can cope at 14 you can cope now with or without your OH ...hoping he takes presure off you
hugs serina xxxxx