LuckySalem
2 daughters
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Hi all,
I have some horrid thoughts against natural parenting but I feel as though my LO needs to have some of them so I need some help.
LO wont settle EVER unless she's held. I keep getting told by a friend to try a sling but I can't let myself do it as I can't help but think that i'll ALWAYS have to carry her and she'll be a clingy baby forever. I also have a problem in that I have DD and I want to be able to spend time with her too but she's losing out at the moment cos I can't put LO down.
We co-sleep but doing it feels like my dirty little secret. I told my mum and mum started saying how it'd be my own fault when I tried to put her in her cot and she starts screaming all night.
I do it cos I'm breastfeeding and feel it's more hassle than it's worth to get up to moses basket to get her and then feed her and put her back. Also cos I'm worried she'll wake DD up who will be alot more trouble to get back to sleep.
I also need a kick up the arse to MAKE myself use the terry nappies that I bought.
I made a deal with myself that I would use one pack of disposables and then move onto the cloth ones but here I am having just bought my 4th pack (of 100) and desperatly trying to tell myself it's just cos they're in the attic or just cos she's still very runny.
I'm sure there will be more but that's it for now.
I have some horrid thoughts against natural parenting but I feel as though my LO needs to have some of them so I need some help.
LO wont settle EVER unless she's held. I keep getting told by a friend to try a sling but I can't let myself do it as I can't help but think that i'll ALWAYS have to carry her and she'll be a clingy baby forever. I also have a problem in that I have DD and I want to be able to spend time with her too but she's losing out at the moment cos I can't put LO down.
We co-sleep but doing it feels like my dirty little secret. I told my mum and mum started saying how it'd be my own fault when I tried to put her in her cot and she starts screaming all night.
I do it cos I'm breastfeeding and feel it's more hassle than it's worth to get up to moses basket to get her and then feed her and put her back. Also cos I'm worried she'll wake DD up who will be alot more trouble to get back to sleep.
I also need a kick up the arse to MAKE myself use the terry nappies that I bought.
I made a deal with myself that I would use one pack of disposables and then move onto the cloth ones but here I am having just bought my 4th pack (of 100) and desperatly trying to tell myself it's just cos they're in the attic or just cos she's still very runny.
I'm sure there will be more but that's it for now.