Bugs me when people say, "oh sure everyone is a little autistic" Nope, no they aren't! It's insulting to say that someone who is a little socially awkward has autism because it's so much more than that.
This! I didnt want to comment on this thread but I cant help it. Having certain temperaments doesnt mean you are autistic or slightly autistic.I have many temperaments I'm aware of, I can be social when I want to but deep inside I am not social, I have some OCDs, it doesnt make me autistic it makes me human. I learned how to fitout & be myself instead of trying to just please others & fit in. No one is perfect.
I think the word autism is used a lot those days which is not fair for families with autistic members
My son had many temperaments that are common with autistic children, he wasnt even accepted in 1 school, & another school wanted him to join a special needs class instead of normal as he wasnt feeding himself by the age of 3, was a picky eater & wasn't out of nappies. The 1st school asked for another assessment as according to them "he might be slightly autistic" , the reasons: he was obsessed with letters & numbers at the age of 3 although he passed all tests & followed instructions, but guess what he wasnt bothered with letters & numbers after a month, he started to get obsessed with trains! We took him for assessment by professionals, he saw an OT but it all came back normal, he's an above average highly sensitive child.
We found the perfect school for him, they didnt over evaluate his behaviour, they worked on his dependency & social issues, now he is a different child, very social & independent.
I have friends with autistic children, & they do feel offended when others use the word autism without consideration. It is more than awkwardness & few temperaments.