teenpregnant
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Hi,
I'm 21 my oh is 22 we got engaged June 2013 on my birthday. We have 2 children a two and half year old and 3 month old.
I'm having a huge sibling problem! My sister is 4 years older than I am, I called to tell her we got engaged and she hung up. It took us a long time to talk again and I thought it was ridiculous she then proceeded to get engaged 6 months later I couldn't have been happier for her congratulated her and we made Christmas all about them.
Fast forward a few months I called her to say we had booked the wedding for 12/12/14 the day before (I didn't call that night as she was out) she said they had booked their wedding that morning for May 2015 I said that's lovely we can plan together and do lots of shopping together! She was cold to me and just said I'd rather do it on my own and hung up. I then received a text saying how dare I not tell her as she never would have done it for 5 months after I apologised and said my reasoning.
Since then she has given me so much grief brought up everything I have ever done wrong to her? Just generally really nasty. The worst thing was she said she lost all respect for me when I was depressed at 15 and overdosed and was in hospital for a month I'm so so hurt and do not understand her. After she said that I said I was done with her then called back and apologised and said we should meet and talk she declined.
I just feel she has ruined our engagement, announcement of the wedding date and I'm worried she will ruin the wedding too.
She says her wedding is much more important to her and she is being overshadowed I don't know what I'm suppose to do about this?
This is more of a rant but at the same time looking for some advise.
Sorry for the long post x
I'm 21 my oh is 22 we got engaged June 2013 on my birthday. We have 2 children a two and half year old and 3 month old.
I'm having a huge sibling problem! My sister is 4 years older than I am, I called to tell her we got engaged and she hung up. It took us a long time to talk again and I thought it was ridiculous she then proceeded to get engaged 6 months later I couldn't have been happier for her congratulated her and we made Christmas all about them.
Fast forward a few months I called her to say we had booked the wedding for 12/12/14 the day before (I didn't call that night as she was out) she said they had booked their wedding that morning for May 2015 I said that's lovely we can plan together and do lots of shopping together! She was cold to me and just said I'd rather do it on my own and hung up. I then received a text saying how dare I not tell her as she never would have done it for 5 months after I apologised and said my reasoning.
Since then she has given me so much grief brought up everything I have ever done wrong to her? Just generally really nasty. The worst thing was she said she lost all respect for me when I was depressed at 15 and overdosed and was in hospital for a month I'm so so hurt and do not understand her. After she said that I said I was done with her then called back and apologised and said we should meet and talk she declined.
I just feel she has ruined our engagement, announcement of the wedding date and I'm worried she will ruin the wedding too.
She says her wedding is much more important to her and she is being overshadowed I don't know what I'm suppose to do about this?
This is more of a rant but at the same time looking for some advise.
Sorry for the long post x