Having another mini break down..!! *advice needed*

[lauralora]

helloooooo ladies, well i hope your all having a better day than me today.

i just wanted some advice on how you all cope about knowing we have such a long time to go before our babys are born, such a long waiting game...!

i keep thinking im not going to go another 18 weeks without seeing blood, im so scared of bleeding, everytime i cramp i think bloods going to follow, i hate having a wee and wiping and i hate having sex because i get so scared blood will follow.

i can see this post is kind of pointles because i realise no one can tell me i wont bleed, but its like ive developed a phobia of blood since having spotting at 14 weeks (which was apparently caused by sex)

i keep thinking if some women can have bleeds in the second tri, then im at risk too

does anyone else just have a huge phobia of seeing blood ??

 

[Las78]

Aw hun Just think, it's been 7 weeks since you last had any blood, thats a long time. 5 weeks and you'll be in 3rd tri, so far so good and there's no reason it shouldn't carry on that way. I know it's hard not to worry all the time

 

[lauraperrysan]

yes yes yes but i have blood on tissue after every bowel movement, it's driving me crazy it's so upsetting too.....here's to no more blood until the birth!! xx

 

[littleblonde]

I still look now for blood. I think after doing it for the last 33 weeks im probably never ever gonna stop.

 

[Mummy2Asher]

me! i was knicker-checking quite a bit before becuase i had cramps and then had a bleed on sunday and now im constantly checking and my scan got cancelled today and its freaked me out as i have cramps again 2nite!!! i really wish the time would fly by so i can have this baby in my arms xxx

 

[Carmello_01]

We should start a new team - Team Knicker Checkers!
Every feeling of slight extra dampness, or warmth and I'm in the loo checking. I haven't taken a wee in the dark at night since the bfp...the loo light must look like a strobe light to the neighbours with the constant on-offing.
I'm desparate for a day where the cold, gut wrenching fear doesn't arrive.

 

[Drazic<3]

Seeing blood is so shocking darling, it's natural that it has given you a complex. I was only 6 weeks when I was bleeding and seeing that bright red took my breath away. We are all here for you babes, and bubs is getting stronger every single day

 

[Sparklestar]

after my mmc last year and bleeding early on in this pregnancy i am absolutely terrified so i would be no good to make you feel better lol, infact i wont even have sex which is causing a few words in my house! much love xxx

 

[Drazic<3]

We haven't had sex either as we are too scared of bleeding. Blimey, I am 12 weeks tomorrow so it has been 6 weeks, two days. No wonder I'm so grumpy!

Sending love Laura hun, I know we don't have anything to make the fear go away, other than that we are all here for you