He made contact after 9months.

[MommaAlexis]

He's calling me tonight. Gonna try to be civil and not bring up the fact that he's been MIA since I was 9weeks pregnant. But not sure what to say that isn't "Please find a cliff and jump." Heeeeeelp?

 

[Dezireey]

Just be super cool hun and best thing is to not let him know what you are thinking either way, that will get him going. He's expecting you to be angry and have a few choice words at him, so dont be and being too nice will make him think you are a pushover. So......just be cool!

 

[Ceejay123]

Oh wow! Good luck x

 

[teal]

Hope it went ok xx

 

[MommaAlexis]

*it was easier then I thought but still awkward. He asked what I wanted from us being in contact again. I said just Lara. He said okay. Is she still crying? I gossiped about how friggen adorable she is. I told him if hes going to be involved he needs to come up at least once every three months. He said he would try for one weekend every two months and that he booked a weekend off for the end if november, just waiting to hear back if it was accepted.

 

[MommaAlexis]

(We live nine hours away from each other)

 

[teal]

Well done you I hope he does make the effort.

 

[Ceejay123]

I hope he sticks to it and makes the effort, well done for letting him in,,, I know it can't have been easy but your little girl will thank you for it x

 

[Shezza84uk]

Thats great!! I hope for Lara's sake he sticks to his agreement xx