pink_phoenix
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My best friend found out just after I had my MMC in may that she was expecting her 3rd baby and as hard as it was at the time I was over the moon for her because she's such a beautiful person and such an amazing mother to her two little boys, I really couldn't hold against her what had happened to me.
At her gender scan she found out she was having a girl and we were so excited as she was desperate for a girl and I wanted her to have a girl so I'd have some one to dress up in pink and play dollies with when I went round, boys are great but they stopped letting me dress them as girls a long time ago haha.
Fast forward a bit when I found out I was expecting she was the first person I told and she's been amazing helping me keep sane to get to where I am now, I honestly don't know what I'd do with out her!!
I spoke to her today as she's been having regular scan as baby is a little on the small side but now there worried about her!!! Even to the point where my friend is starting steroid injections and being told they may have to deliver early!!
I'm so heart broken for her at the thought of the baby being at any risk. I was really hoping this pregnancy would go text book for her as neither the boys were straight forward, the eldest of which is still having heart opperations!!
I've said as much as I can to reasure her but I just don't want to sound like one of those people who come out with stupid comments like my sisters friends brother...... we all know one I'm sure.
I'm feeling a little lost and all the confidence I had in my own pregnancy has now just flown out the window.
I've told her i'll do anything I can to be there when ever she needs me but I'm worried she may not ask as she doesn't want anything to stress me out
I can't even think straight, even rung my mum at work crying, it just had to come out.
Think that's y I've written this, all the feelings I've got can't stay in I know as it's not good for my health or the babies and some times just writing here hiding behind a computer I can say exactly how I think and feel with out people close to me getting upset
Thank you for giving me a place to get out what I need. In times like this I cannot express what it means to me
Xx
At her gender scan she found out she was having a girl and we were so excited as she was desperate for a girl and I wanted her to have a girl so I'd have some one to dress up in pink and play dollies with when I went round, boys are great but they stopped letting me dress them as girls a long time ago haha.
Fast forward a bit when I found out I was expecting she was the first person I told and she's been amazing helping me keep sane to get to where I am now, I honestly don't know what I'd do with out her!!
I spoke to her today as she's been having regular scan as baby is a little on the small side but now there worried about her!!! Even to the point where my friend is starting steroid injections and being told they may have to deliver early!!
I'm so heart broken for her at the thought of the baby being at any risk. I was really hoping this pregnancy would go text book for her as neither the boys were straight forward, the eldest of which is still having heart opperations!!
I've said as much as I can to reasure her but I just don't want to sound like one of those people who come out with stupid comments like my sisters friends brother...... we all know one I'm sure.
I'm feeling a little lost and all the confidence I had in my own pregnancy has now just flown out the window.
I've told her i'll do anything I can to be there when ever she needs me but I'm worried she may not ask as she doesn't want anything to stress me out
I can't even think straight, even rung my mum at work crying, it just had to come out.
Think that's y I've written this, all the feelings I've got can't stay in I know as it's not good for my health or the babies and some times just writing here hiding behind a computer I can say exactly how I think and feel with out people close to me getting upset
Thank you for giving me a place to get out what I need. In times like this I cannot express what it means to me
Xx