Hello :)

[leoniebabey]

just thought i'd introduce myself. I have an almost 2 year old son who's dad doesn't see him. We split when Lo was 3 months after domestic violence issues. He's saw him once since. He's pays £5 a week (csa).

and im almost 12 weeks pregnant with #2 and feeling pretty shitty about the situation. Was in a new relationship and fell pregnant (not planned) we broke up when i insisted i was keeping it and here i am single again. Just scared people are going to judge me and stuff

 

[dustbunny]

Well I for one am not judging you and I know no one on this forum will judge you. Who has the right to judge you anyway? No one is perfect in life, no one. Everyone has made mistakes or will make mistakes and that is how life goes... not saying that your new bundle of joy is a mistake at all. You are extending your little family, this is a time for celebration!!!
You are already a strong person to walk away from a relationship which held domestic abuse and will be strong enough to withstand having this child without the father around. We are always here for chit chats etc.

 

[cherry_pie]

You always write such lovely posts dustbunny!! I totally agree, life is a rollercoaster and you just have to roll with it. At least you will have your lovely babies to roll it with you!

 

[teal]

Hello xx

 

[leoniebabey]

ah i know nobody here would but my family and such, they don't know yet and i don't think some of them will take it so well. There a bit old fashioned if you catch my drift.
Thanks for the replies ladies i'll be hanging round in here (i always forget it's here )

 

[Cazamatazaaa]

Hey sweetie! welcome and congratulations on your pregnancy! i am a single mummy to 2 children, both have different dads. i split with my daughters dad, it was a mutual agreement. happily moved on, thought i found the one, then he turned out to be a waste of time and hasnt got the time of day for us.

I also think people will think bad of me, but i have amazing kids, and you know what, i bloody love them so much, i dont care what anyone thinks... you will have your bad days, but at the end of the day, your an amazing girl, with 1 and another on the way, if you can raise 2 kiddies alone, u can do anything! keep smiling and stay strong, if u ever want a chat just shout

 

[leoniebabey]

ah thanks hun i feel better now. So far he's got no interest whatsoever maybe he will come round maybe he wont but we won't be getting back together not after what he's put me through. Why do i attract these people lol!

 

[Cazamatazaaa]

you sound like your doing a fab job! hey i choose the wrong ones too! where are we going wrong lol! perhaps we will find the right one, one day!

 

[leoniebabey]

i hope so there has to be someone out there for us!