Ok i posted a while ago about y LO sleeping through last night in her car seat,well tonight its proved that it was a 1 off fluke,so i'm back to square 1 and i am seriously strating to feel like a failure I am really not sure if i am doing something wrong,its all around sleep problems really She doesnt nap during the day,well only for like 20-40 mins and ONLY on me or my oh She doesnt stay asleep at night,its horrendous tbh i am starting to dread bed time I put her down around 830is and she goes to sleep around 11 ish maybe if i tell you a basic day you may spot something i'm doing wrong,oh she also has silet reflux so had gaviscon before a feed,she is bf so feeds on demand 830-9am wakes up,feed,change her nappy,i try desperatly to get more sleep,doesnt work so we lay in bed watching tv,she ay doze off for another half hour 10-11 am drag my arse outta bed and for the rest of the day i try to do housework,sing to her,play with her,put her in her swingetc 5-6pm our dinner,try and get her down anywhere,swing generally ,and hope upon all hopes she'll sleep so we can eat a hot meal lol 830-9pm put her in her sleep gear,put her in moses basket,turn lights off,i try to stay in there with her but cant all the time,put tv on silent,she just cries otherwise 11pm ish she goes to sleep 1130-12 am i try to give her a dream feed and i try to go to sleep 2-3 am shes back awake again for a quick feed 5-6 a shes awake again then we're back round to 830am again so i'm not getting uch sleep,some nights are worse then others,but surely she should be able to sleep longer now!! Is she overtired? Over stimulated? maybe i have a baby who just doesnt sleep much?should i try to do a rigid routine? should i just keep putting her down? I mean HV and everyone says give her a bottle of formula to make her sleep more but she just WONT have more then 2oz of it!! Once she hist 2oz she just cries,but i tried again tonight and after th 2oz i put her on the boob and she had more bm?? wtf!! HELP!!!!