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Ollie-Jay 20 months old
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Hi guys, im 20 (21 next month) and pregnant with my first baby. it was planned and me and my boyfriend were trying for 3 months before we conceived. the problem is i quit my job a while ago to start college training to become a nurse. the plan was to get a part time job until the course starts in september...my babys due in november! =/ however the course also starts in june and i can select to do nights 6-9pm instead of days so my partner can look after the baby while i go to night college. my partner has a well paid secure job and this is one of the factors we considered before even trying for a baby. we have enough money to live comfortably and provide for our baby so its not a problem but i know my mum and dad wont see the comprimise and will give me the whole 'your ruining your life speech' im so scared to even sit them down and talk to them because we get along well usually and i dont want a big fall out im already scared and would really like my mum and dads support i feel like every oppertunity i get i think of an excuse to not tell them, last weekend for instance i was set to tell them but my mum was in a bad mood so i thought best not this week..its getting silly now and i cant keep putting it off. is there anyone out there who has been in my position or even any mums out there with a daughter of similar age how would you react? please help needs sorting asap! xx