I'm asking the US moms to be cause I know baby showers are more common here in the US, but all advice is welcome! My best friend is throwing me a baby shower @ the beginning of February as I am due March 3. She asked me to get my list of people together for who I want to get an invitation. I THOUGHT that would be no trouble BUT I've hit a road block. She has 20 invitations and so far I have 14 people on my list. My question is: do I send invites to family members who are in state and risk hurting feelings of those out of state?? By family members I'm talking Aunts cousins, etc- I have my mom, mother in law and all grandmothers on the list already. Should I just leave the list the way it is and just call the family members that aren't on the list so they can just send something later? I guess I'm just wondering if anyone has a large family like me and ran into this problem yet?