help :-O

[jules444]

Hello everyone

its my 2nd cycle after 2nd misscarriage, and we've decided to try again. we half heartedly tried last month too but nothing came of it. So Ive been using the clearblue digital opks. My question is, on monday I got a smiley face- we tried that night, then another smiley face on yesterday, tried again in the eve- now its wednesday and we did the deed this morning (sorry too much info!) have we done enough?! getting mild cramps today.

ive no energy left! sometimes it feels more like hard work, sad but true. so desperately want a baby.its all I think about every seconed, every day. Im terrified of loosing a third. This part is the worst bit now, waiting.

also just wondered....for years now every cycle I get major breast pain, when I've been pregnant its even worse. But since d&c they dont hurt even a little. seems a bit wierd.

anyway, any thoughts, words of wisdom very much appriciated. xx

 

[sarahjane10]

hey hun

I hope you get posative soon, I am ttc again after having a mc

xxx

 

[Katy_28]

Y'know what? I'm similar to you, I think about TTC all day, every day.

My advice would be to keep TTC fun, rather than a chore and your BFP will happen. My best friend took over a year to get her BFP, it took me a week (which ended in MC unfortunately). My point is, it will happen whether you BD every day or once a month, it just takes one lucky time.

Good luck xx

 

[jules444]

thanks sarahjane,

goodluck to you too,xx

 

[wannabe mam]

Hi Jules444,
I am exactly the same I cant think of anything else after my miscarraige in March. I still feel as bad now as I did when it happened. I try to keep as busy as I can surrounding myself with all my lovely friends and family. People say it will happen when you are not trying so hard but I think they mean when we are not putting so much pressure on ourselves. Good luck xxx