Help on Fertility Friend ???

[xXxJessicaxXx]

I know, I hope so to because patience aint my strong point when it start's to take the P*ss. I am fed up after 20 month's (including this month) of trying and I have not managed to get anywere apart from shagged out lol.

Awww I now hun but we cant force a egg out otherwise we wouldnt still be waiting to get our BFP's. Only if it was that easy hay. But then we might not have met lol.
I think it would be lovly to have you as my bump buddy.

So will you defo see your OH on monday, tuesday and wednesday & how far doe's he live from you if you dont mind me asking???

Loving the little comment at the bottom of your post lol.

 

[Pinky32]

its just so hard when you know your doing everything right and still nothing and then you hear about someone who gets preggy first time!

One of my bnb girls asked me to help her friend who had just startec charting and that first month she got a BFP and now shes saying she didnt really want one! WTF!

Its true - if we hadnt been trying for so long then we wouldnt have met - so there is one good thing thats come out of this

Its not def that I will see OH on monday but i normally do as he plays football that night and comes to see me afterwards - thats why i NEED to ov mon, tues or wed lol - he doesnt live far from me, but its complicated - i;ll message you about it, dont really want to say it for everyone to see

The other girls i talk to are in https://www.babyandbump.com/two-week-wait/830234-were-all-together.html - one of the girls has been trying for 20 months as well - you should pop in there as there are only about 4 of us but their lovely and friendly

since being on bnb ive met some lovely girls who were on my signature but most have bfps now and it was making me jealous seeing it daily so i just made it to all the girls i talk to daily

 

[xXxJessicaxXx]

its just so hard when you know your doing everything right and still nothing and then you hear about someone who gets preggy first time!

One of my bnb girls asked me to help her friend who had just startec charting and that first month she got a BFP and now shes saying she didnt really want one! WTF!

Its true - if we hadnt been trying for so long then we wouldnt have met - so there is one good thing thats come out of this

Its not def that I will see OH on monday but i normally do as he plays football that night and comes to see me afterwards - thats why i NEED to ov mon, tues or wed lol - he doesnt live far from me, but its complicated - i;ll message you about it, dont really want to say it for everyone to see

The other girls i talk to are in https://www.babyandbump.com/two-week-wait/830234-were-all-together.html - one of the girls has been trying for 20 months as well - you should pop in there as there are only about 4 of us but their lovely and friendly

since being on bnb ive met some lovely girls who were on my signature but most have bfps now and it was making me jealous seeing it daily so i just made it to all the girls i talk to daily

Thank's hun for the other thread and yep our friendship is defo a good thing that come from all this TTC.

That's why that girl got a BFP because she didnt even want one. I know what you mean with the WTF. some people hay.

I know cause i dont seem to being doing any think wrong but look at me still know were after 20 month's of trying.

That's quite a good thing that he goe's football then come's to see you because they say a man should not prolong sitting if your TTC as it can over heat his ball's and Harm the swimmer's. Or somethink like that. That's why one ball bag is lower then the other one lol. bet that made you smile & laugh.

Im defo gonna come over to that thread in a min, and I really do hope this month get's you that BFP hun. You really do deserve it.


Jelousy is normal when trying for a baby im just the same. x x x

To you to hun. x

 

[Pinky32]

i could understand it if there was something wrong with us but we;re all healthy etc - its just got to happen soon - but then, what would i spend my days obsessing about

i knew i had a jealous streak in me but sometimes its unbelievable how jealous i can be lol

 

[xXxJessicaxXx]

lol im the same hun, I can get so jelous that i cant even sleep at night. lol. It's silly but it's true. x x x

 

[Pinky32]

me too! my mind starts going into over drive and start thinking all sorts of things

 

[xXxJessicaxXx]

lol snap, that's defo how to put it. And you know at first your feeling really tierd then what ever get's said to make that jelousy inside hit the ruff, then you feel like you've just drunk a jug of coffee lol and cant sleep. lol. x x x

 

[Pinky32]

then we start to feel guilty for thinking like we do lol

 

[xXxJessicaxXx]

Yep lol, it just seem's to be the way it goes.

Got a little update on syptom's... Well for the last 2 day's iv been checking my Areola's as I thought they looked a little darker and larger, But wasnt 100% shore so today got My fiance to have a little peek and he also said the same. Today My Areola's feel a little sore when i touch them and bb's also feel a little sore when i touch them but only by my Areola's. bb's also feel a little larger then normal (only since this morning) but the left bb feel's a little larger then the right bb. Also was a little emotional earlier about 4:00PM, but feel fine now lol. Been feeling a little achey in place's but on and off all day really. Last night had Disrupted Sleep, Cramp's (Not due on AF untill feb 27th-30th) and This morning cervix just closed up went low and firm. So quite a change today. x x x What do you think?

 

[Pinky32]

hmmm im prob not the best person to ask as ive neverr had any of those but i do know that their all good symptoms

i used to check cp but then read that it changes so much and also when i looked at preggy charts all their cp were different so i gave up checking it lol

but i would say their all good signs at 5DPO

 

[xXxJessicaxXx]

Thank's hun, that's still really good advice. So i can stay quite positive as well as quite hopeful about this month. But to be truthful i think im a bit more hopeful then positive. x x x

 

[Pinky32]

hunm you have to stay positive!!!!

hopefully sarah on the other thread can help you - she know tons

but you know im here for you xx

 

[xXxJessicaxXx]

yer course i no your here for me hun just cause you invited me to another thread, were still best thread buddie's lol.

What do you wanna do, do you wanna keep writting on here as well as the other thread or should we take our convo other there and keep this thread for when we just want a one on one chat hun... what do you think. I dont mind writting on both if you dont hun. x x x

 

[Pinky32]

i dont mind, but i dont want to lose this thread - i like our one-to-ones but the other girls (when there all on) are good knowledge and lovely girls

awwww@best thread buddies

 

[xXxJessicaxXx]

Hun i aint getting rid of this thread, this is our thread, well just write on both hun.
Then we can keep our one on one's going. x x x

 

[Pinky32]

yayyyyy brilliant!!!

i know this is still open to the public - but its nice to know that we can just chit chat in here

 

[xXxJessicaxXx]

lol, i know hun. x x x

 

[xXxJessicaxXx]

Hello hun,

How you feelin?

Had a little rise in temp this morning. x x x

 

[Pinky32]

ooooooh shows a lovely implant dip wooooo hoooooo

im ok thanks but still feel ill, now got a dry tickly annoying cough

 

[xXxJessicaxXx]

I hope so lol & i wanna be seeing one of them on your chart within the next 2 week or less.

aww hun i thought you might have been better by now, it's that horrible weather. it rained over this way pretty much all day then a rainbow had the cheek to come out it wasnt even sunny lol. Hun i hope you get better soon.

I had a little change in syptom's today, my whole boobs have gone so tender, a little swollen and heavy, more the left boob, still got darker and bigger Areola's. Was still really achy this morning but feel's like it's starting to settle down, no more sharp cramp's just light cramp's but on and off most of the day, felt a little Nausea this morning <<<(honey shoved yogurt in my mouth) and this evening <<<(Dunno why), disrupted sleep again last night. and mostly lower back ache.

But im not going to get all excited because of a few good syptom's, I dont want the disappointment of a BFN. x x x

What you been up to today anything nice? x x x