Hi! Sounds like a great plan of action to lose weight and sort your finances! I am also waiting for #2. My DS is 20 months old and we will be trying shortly after his 2nd bday in April. Not much left on our to do list honestly! We needed to:
-move and settle: done- moved in March and working through our project list ATM
-get DS fully weaned and STTN in his own bed (we partial co slept): done- DS self weaned at 17 months and practically overnight started STTN (hallelujah!). Once he was sleeping, there was no need to come in with is in our bed so successfully transitioned him.
-lose a lot of weight: in progress -i've currently lost 66 pounds with 14 to go. On track to be there by April.
-Finally, get cycles regulated post bf'ing: in progress. Working with my doctor to get them regulated. LP is still not where I want it (currently 11 days and want at least 12 before trying).
Really hoping to get the last couple goals hit before trying for the next one. And you are way ahead of me! When DS was 6 months old, I couldn't even imagine having another one. Its only been in the last couple months that I've been able to think about it without panicking a little lol.