Here one more time...

[paintrider89]

Well like the title says, it appears that I will be doing this pregnancy thing one more time. After DS was born hubby said no more. 2 was his limit, and we had our boy/girl. I wasn't 100% with him at the time. But I accepted it, because we really didn't NEED another.
DS is almost 3, and I found out a few days ago, I am preggo again. We didn't plan it. And the contraceptive we have been using for nearly 3 years has failed us.
Hubby took the news way better than I am. I just finished giving away/selling the last of the baby stuff. Now I have to start all over.
I need to make a dr. Appt. I need to get insurance for myself and baby, I will need a bigger car, and I had just started to ride horses again and was enjoying my two independent kiddos. All of these things that will change. And I just want to go about my life in the routine we have found in the last year, after a very troubled time in our marriage.
Sorry about the poor me moment. Every day I am getting a little more used to the idea. We haven't shared it with any friends or family yet, I need to accept it in my own mind first I guess.

 

[Chezzer]

I didn't see it as poor me. More u sound a bit upset and maybe confused or unsure about what u want to do. I'l stand corrected but u don't sound to happy about the new pregnancy. I hope it all goes well for u.x

 

[paintrider89]

I didn't see it as poor me. More u sound a bit upset and maybe confused or unsure about what u want to do. I'l stand corrected but u don't sound to happy about the new pregnancy. I hope it all goes well for u.x

I think the best description is shocked. A baby is always a welcome blessing. But my 2 kiddos were planned. We talked before hand, so this suprise pregnancy has thrown my little world for a loop. And like I said, we haven't told anyone, so I think I am trying to work out the confusion in other ways.

 

[Chezzer]

Sorry if I upset u at all if wasn't my intention how u feeling about things now??

 

[paintrider89]

Sorry if I upset u at all if wasn't my intention how u feeling about things now??

Not at all. I just ramble on a lot
I am feeling better and more positive. Thank you for asking.
I have done this twice, I can do it a 3rd time. And my two are super sociable and will be thrilled with a sibling.

 

[Emsabub]

Like you say, you’ve done this before, one more time won’t hurt. Once he/she is here it’ll be amazing either way!

 

[azure girl]

Welcome back to the nine month wait! I remember you from our first pregnancies, we both have 4/2014 children.

It's ok to be overwhelmed, especially in an unplanned pregnancy. However, I have no doubt that your whole family will love the baby and you will be fine sorting it all out.

 

[paintrider89]

Welcome back to the nine month wait! I remember you from our first pregnancies, we both have 4/2014 children.

It's ok to be overwhelmed, especially in an unplanned pregnancy. However, I have no doubt that your whole family will love the baby and you will be fine sorting it all out.

Thank you! And looks like we are both on #3, though you are further ahead this time. With 2 year olds to boot!
Are you nervous to go from 2-3? I feel a bit sad that I am making my little guy a middle child.
You ladies are the best, and so understanding of these crazy emotions it's such a comfort to have this place to share my anxiety.
I have told my mom. So now I have some family support, and shes excited to start shopping.

 

[azure girl]

Welcome back to the nine month wait! I remember you from our first pregnancies, we both have 4/2014 children.

It's ok to be overwhelmed, especially in an unplanned pregnancy. However, I have no doubt that your whole family will love the baby and you will be fine sorting it all out.

Thank you! And looks like we are both on #3, though you are further ahead this time. With 2 year olds to boot!
Are you nervous to go from 2-3? I feel a bit sad that I am making my little guy a middle child.
You ladies are the best, and so understanding of these crazy emotions it's such a comfort to have this place to share my anxiety.
I have told my mom. So now I have some family support, and shes excited to start shopping.

Yes, but I think my oldest is a good helper and can hopefully entertain my second child. My second is full of fire, so she will definitely be fine and let me know how she's feeling.

 

[hunni12]

good luck love you got this