Becwantsababy
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Hi All,
I've been lurking around for a while and not really posting but feel like I need to get some opinions. Well, my and the OH were discussing our life/future etc and kids always comes up. We have been waiting to try for a few years now first of all for money and me getting healthy and now it is just me that is holding us back. He actually said that he is ready to try now but not until I have lost some more weight. We have always had a mutual agreement that we would ttc when I was at a healthy weight. At the moment I am 31 years old, morbindly obese weighing 18st and 5ft 4.
Now he has verbally confirmed that all we are waiting for is for me to lose weight, it is making me feel very frustrated with myself.
I do feel like saying to him stuff loosing weight cos although I am big, I am still relatively healthy (normal b.p, no diabetes etc) but I really don't think he would go for it.
We have agreed that instead of me getting down to what would be classed as a healthy weight, just getting me healthy and losing maybe 3-4 stone would be better, especially timewise for us. But it just feel so far away!! You would think that having a baby would be the best motivation in the world but I just can't seem to stick to a diet.
Is anyone else in this situation? Anyone got any words of advice?
I've been lurking around for a while and not really posting but feel like I need to get some opinions. Well, my and the OH were discussing our life/future etc and kids always comes up. We have been waiting to try for a few years now first of all for money and me getting healthy and now it is just me that is holding us back. He actually said that he is ready to try now but not until I have lost some more weight. We have always had a mutual agreement that we would ttc when I was at a healthy weight. At the moment I am 31 years old, morbindly obese weighing 18st and 5ft 4.
Now he has verbally confirmed that all we are waiting for is for me to lose weight, it is making me feel very frustrated with myself.
I do feel like saying to him stuff loosing weight cos although I am big, I am still relatively healthy (normal b.p, no diabetes etc) but I really don't think he would go for it.
We have agreed that instead of me getting down to what would be classed as a healthy weight, just getting me healthy and losing maybe 3-4 stone would be better, especially timewise for us. But it just feel so far away!! You would think that having a baby would be the best motivation in the world but I just can't seem to stick to a diet.
Is anyone else in this situation? Anyone got any words of advice?