Hey Guys So....

[MulanRapunzel]

Hey! I'm very confused, I'm hoping for some help. I'm going to start from the beginning of the first day of my cycle which was either November 29th or November 30th, I can't really remember. On the night of December 6th (a day or two after my period ended) and the morning of December 7th I had unprotected sex because I'm a naive 18 year old girl and the boy I had the romp with told me he was on anti-depressants that hindered his chances at coming/ejaculating. He told me it was really hard for him to produce anything and that he would have to be really really really turned on and it would take a lot of effort and all that he never got a girl pregnant before so I shouldn't worry, ect. I didn't know any better because this was a new situation that I never heard of before, he showed me the side effects on his medication and I felt it was a decent protection method. I didn't think I needed the morning after pill, but I took it any way four days later. (The EC pill claimed to work up to five days after.) Since the third day after sex though, I've been cramping up and I will get a twanging pain in my breast throughout the day, nothing horrible but a little unusuall-like the pain I would get when I was little and my boobs were just growing in, along with feeling lightheaded. I felt really lightheaded and out of it all on that third day though. I've also had an unusual amount of creamy white discharge. Yesterday on the 17th in the afternoon, I started to bleed. The blood is still here 24 hours later, but it's mixed the discharge and the blood only really appears when I wipe. It's enough to wear a pad though, but the pad always ends up brown with some clumps of blood. I was reading that this could be implant bleeding, but this seems a little heavy for that. I was read that the EC pill can make a period come a week early, and that some girls mistake the hormonal effects of the EC pill for pregnancy. I took a test, but it came out negative, but I also know it's pretty early for that. I was hoping someone could tell me if this sounds like pregnancy or not. Please no mean answers like 'you're pregnant you jack ass you had un-protected sex' I'm aware of that. I don't want the pregnancy, but if I am I'm not going to abort and I will work this out with the father and my family if I am. My grandma was a teen mom and my parents are incredibly understanding. I'm not ready, but I am ready to buckle down and face facts if I am. ALSO, it's not an STD I was tested for those.

 

[mara16jade]

Honestly the only way to know is to either go get a blood test, or keep doing urine tests. I've never taken EC, so I have no idea how the body reacts - and every person's body will react differently. I've heard of women who take EC and get their period within a few days, and other women who skip that entire cycle and then get their period the following month.

I know that doesn't help. Sorry.

And I'm sure you know this now, but in order to feel safe and protected, never trust anyone else with your body - like a teenage horny boy. You know what's on their mind and what they dream about. Once they wiggle their dingle in you...there is ALWAYS a chance of pregnancy. Best of luck, and it sounds like you have a very supportive, loving family to lean on.

ETA: I didn't start getting white discharge until about week 8-9. I had implantation bleeding for 4 days that was more like brown/mucus around 13-14 days after my period, and my boobs didn't start feeling funny until about week 5-6.

I didn't get one single symptom until after I missed my period. And even then, my pregnancy symptoms were so light, I had to really think about it.

 

[MulanRapunzel]

Thank you for your post!