Aly529
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I'm new to the forum... Came across it in during my crazy googling... I think I use googling as theraphy. This is VERY long..I am SO sorry I just ...kept writing.
I thought your ladies could relate.
Me and hubbby have been together for 7 years... Have been trying for a while really. I don't even want to think about it.
I got pregnant before and had a very early miscarriage. It was real early and not to dismiss it or anyone else who has gone through one but I was ok after.
We finally got pregnant Jan14th (exact date we conceived)... It was a girl. I was sooo excited. It's all I could google about... I finally relaxed after passing 12 weeks..fiqured what were the chances of something going wrong at this point. After all, we found out it was a girl two week later, started feeling her move...it was great. One morning ..May 14th I woke up and my water just broke. Just like that. It was all over . There was nothing the hospital could do. They called it premature rupture of membranes. I was 18weeks and 1day. Far enough along to have to give birth and see her fully developed, with nails and all, her dads feet, my shape face, etc.. it was the WORST experience of my life and I don't wish it on my worst enemy. To make matters worse the labor triggered my milk to come in. I was leaking for weeks and had no baby to feed.
Anyway, sorry for the TMI. I'm obviously not over it. I still can't talk about it really and this is my first time on a forum where I have a remote chance of seeing or talking to pregnant women. I avoid them in real life at all costs... babies too. I just get soo sad. I just want to be a mom.
My ob was an idiot (I know better now) didnt even attend the delivery..gave us a 6th RX of clomid a week after I lost her and told me to try again. No monitoring, just a 6 mth supply and a kick in the butt. I will NEVER go back to him for MANY reasons. I'll keep it short.
We decided to take it one mth and see how it goes. I ended up with pains worse then labor and in the hospital during the next two af's. I have not filled the rest of the 5mths and wont until we see a RE *I also have PCOS..yay! ) I said we would take a break until January so I can get it together and well, we're not preventing it either.
My last cycle was 10.01 and it was due 11.04. I am now a week late. Tested when I was 3 days late and Still no AF as of today. I'm sure I'm just late for another reason then pregnancy. *this is what I tell myself to avoid complete dissapointment*
To make matters worse *and give me possible false hope* back in July when I was taking the clomid I got a reading from Cherri22 just out of desperation mostly. I didn't pay.. I didn't care if it was a free reading and had to wait. She wrote back the same day though although her website said she's 4 mths behind with free readings and 1mth for paid ones. She said sometimes she gets an urge so she writes back. I don't know. I'm not even sure if I believe it but she said she sees July as the mth I'd be due with a boy. This coming July 2011.
That means I would be pregnant now. So combined with that and the BFN, plus the fact that our daughter would have been due less then a mth ago I'm losing it... poor hubby. He's soo good to deal with me through this.
Anyway...I had a lot to say...sorry if I lost some of you on paragraph one but it's been rough and very few people understand. I just want to be mom. I always thought this "Clock ticking" business was crap but really...this clock is sooooo loud.
Thanks for reading!
I thought your ladies could relate.
Me and hubbby have been together for 7 years... Have been trying for a while really. I don't even want to think about it.
I got pregnant before and had a very early miscarriage. It was real early and not to dismiss it or anyone else who has gone through one but I was ok after.
We finally got pregnant Jan14th (exact date we conceived)... It was a girl. I was sooo excited. It's all I could google about... I finally relaxed after passing 12 weeks..fiqured what were the chances of something going wrong at this point. After all, we found out it was a girl two week later, started feeling her move...it was great. One morning ..May 14th I woke up and my water just broke. Just like that. It was all over . There was nothing the hospital could do. They called it premature rupture of membranes. I was 18weeks and 1day. Far enough along to have to give birth and see her fully developed, with nails and all, her dads feet, my shape face, etc.. it was the WORST experience of my life and I don't wish it on my worst enemy. To make matters worse the labor triggered my milk to come in. I was leaking for weeks and had no baby to feed.
Anyway, sorry for the TMI. I'm obviously not over it. I still can't talk about it really and this is my first time on a forum where I have a remote chance of seeing or talking to pregnant women. I avoid them in real life at all costs... babies too. I just get soo sad. I just want to be a mom.
My ob was an idiot (I know better now) didnt even attend the delivery..gave us a 6th RX of clomid a week after I lost her and told me to try again. No monitoring, just a 6 mth supply and a kick in the butt. I will NEVER go back to him for MANY reasons. I'll keep it short.
We decided to take it one mth and see how it goes. I ended up with pains worse then labor and in the hospital during the next two af's. I have not filled the rest of the 5mths and wont until we see a RE *I also have PCOS..yay! ) I said we would take a break until January so I can get it together and well, we're not preventing it either.
My last cycle was 10.01 and it was due 11.04. I am now a week late. Tested when I was 3 days late and Still no AF as of today. I'm sure I'm just late for another reason then pregnancy. *this is what I tell myself to avoid complete dissapointment*
To make matters worse *and give me possible false hope* back in July when I was taking the clomid I got a reading from Cherri22 just out of desperation mostly. I didn't pay.. I didn't care if it was a free reading and had to wait. She wrote back the same day though although her website said she's 4 mths behind with free readings and 1mth for paid ones. She said sometimes she gets an urge so she writes back. I don't know. I'm not even sure if I believe it but she said she sees July as the mth I'd be due with a boy. This coming July 2011.
That means I would be pregnant now. So combined with that and the BFN, plus the fact that our daughter would have been due less then a mth ago I'm losing it... poor hubby. He's soo good to deal with me through this.
Anyway...I had a lot to say...sorry if I lost some of you on paragraph one but it's been rough and very few people understand. I just want to be mom. I always thought this "Clock ticking" business was crap but really...this clock is sooooo loud.
Thanks for reading!