Hi think iam in here now.

[tmr1234]

Hi every 1 i think i belonge in here now. I came off my pill day befor yestaerday but DH dosnt want to try for a baby but dosnt want me on the pill any more as it is making my realy ill.

So a bit about me iam 27 DH 40 we got marred in June. We have 2 boys age 7 and 2 next week and i would love for 1 more ( a little girl if poss) But DH dosnt want any more just yet so not sure where we are at.

One thing i need to know how do you not try as when we was trying for our LO i know every thing about what was happing when how do you turn that off?

 

[lilfrog01]

that is a good question. dont know the answer but definatly see where your coming from. dh and i are currently using the withdrawl method and i wonder is it still ntnp? he is aware that there is still a chance everytime but since we were ttc i know my cycle and it's hard for me to let nature take it's course. well good luck!

 

[mommy2lilmen]

My theory is, if DH isnt going to use condoms then you may as well just go with the flow and let it happen
we are using the pull out method, so i think we belong here.

 

[tmr1234]

Well i was talking to DH last night and he kept on saying well we just can't have sex then gave me a look like "yeah right" iam going to just chill about it for now and if it happens it dose and i will be so happy. Like mommy2lilmen i am thining the same he knews i am not on the pill so it is up to him.