Hi im new. Ive been on a few forums and none really appealed to me as they are big and intimidating when you dont know anyone. I recognise some names here are you all on other forums as well? I thought it would be confusing being on more than one forum? Anyway im 26 and ttc my first. been ttc for 16 months with no luck. Hoping for a positive test soon. Bye bye hope to get some replies Jody S xxx
Hi Jody, Welcome. Quite a few of us are from the same forum so you maynhave seen us there. Hope your TTC journey ends soon with a BFP!
thanks, i thought i saw these names before! im not going mad after all! where did i see you guys? girlmom.com?
Oh yes i remember that one. Very big! Im glad i found a nice small one so i can get to know everyone! I hate jumping in on peoples posts who i don't know! Well i hope to get a positive that stays this time! It's too hard keeping trying and failing each month. Every month i have a miscarriage as i cant seem to keep hold of a pregnancy. inner lining too thin or something. Every month i have to 'think thick' haha! Hopefully this month ill keep my positive! Im testing soon so hope this is my month.
HI Jody https://img.photobucket.com/albums/v82/wickedangelx/Smilies/wave.gif I'm sorry to hear about your losses Your situation sounds the same as ourselves! How early on do you MC? Ours have failed before 5 weeks each time & have 4 known in the last 6 months as well as 1 ectopic ordeal x
Yeah before 5 weeks usually some have passed the 'safe zone' then failed again. I dont tend to count the days, it gets on top of us.. just wait and see what happens.
Crikey hun I'm the same! Although I wouldn't wish my circumstances on anybody it's nice to speak to someone who is in the same situation. As I chart I can see when each of ours has failed, we got that little bit further on the month just gone as I was using progesterone supplements the only thing I don't do now is look anywhere near what our due date would be. Have you had your losses confirmed & are they helping you? I'm having a bit of nightmare really. x
Yeah im having tests done here there and everywhere. I tend not to learn what im taking as i look it up etc.. so i just take what they give me lol! I dont want to chart etc coz ill be watching it 24/7 and id rather just get on with my life and hope one will stay with me! If i miscarry, i just think of it as a heavy period and carry on.. Sounds heartless but when its been 16 months, u have to think like that!
I think charting has helped me in one way, I have got to communicate with some of the girls with charting & learnt so much more about my cycle & in a little strange way a mini journal. Just lets me see where I am at & what I've been through over x many months. Always handy for the consultants. Actually insome ways its kept me busy. Little things & all that. Jody you have been MC'ing for 16 months? Have they tried or are going to try different options with you? I have tried fragmin & progrestrone supplements so far although the progretsrone was off my own back & found other ways to get these I see the main consultant for the first time on the 12th!
