hiding the bump

[Serene123]

She wants to hide it from the school so she can do her exams

 

[mummy_channon]

She wants to hide it from the school so she can do her exams

yeah sorry i just went back and read the whole thread!!
the skool cant kick you out for being pregnant!!!

 

[mummy_channon]

oh and p.s i think its great you want to get your school done!!

 

[alexx144]

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[Jenny]

My high school (Catholic) was the same, if you were pregnant you had to leave and attend school for pregnant teens.


The bandages aren't a good idea but the baggy clothes is. Plus, usually first pregnancies take a long time to show. If you have a small frame you can easily hide it most likely. Especially if your exams are in May.

I'm sorry you're going through this stress hon but good for you for trying to finish your schooling and I wish you luck with your exams

Let us know how you do!

 

[kookie]

im shocked at some of the comments made to you ella you made a mistake it happens i was pregnant at 16 and comments like that hurt but your a sensible girl tell someone so you have some support and i promise it gets better you learn to ignore those sort of opinions good luck and take care xxxxx

 

[lily24]

if she didnt want a baby she should of used a condom if her school tried to stop her education they can be taken to court and get well fined at the end of the day u need to sort ur life and ur future baby out that comes first

The pill is a form of birth control isnt it?! i was on this and got pregnant.. A little small minded

 

[Uvlollypop]

it shocks me that a Catholic school can kick you out for being pregnant its crazy, i didint think they believed in birth control or abortion? (please correct me if im wrong :S)
its properly mental that they can deny a young girl her education it seems like a huge contradiction and its hardly fair is it?!

im hoping you can hold out until after your exams because they are so important although there are ways to do them later on but i suppose they will take longer to do.

im glad that you have told they babys dad at least someone knows.

good luck

 

[Mynxie]

it shocks me that a Catholic school can kick you out for being pregnant its crazy, i didint think they believed in birth control or abortion? (please correct me if im wrong :S)
its properly mental that they can deny a young girl her education it seems like a huge contradiction and its hardly fair is it?!

they also don't believe in sex before marriage sweetie, - that's what they' may go off.

 

[Uvlollypop]

ah yeah i forgot about that one, its shit

 

[bubbles]

no fun what so ever in the catholic religion (it's a joke please no one hate me)

 

[nikky0907]

My school wasn't even catholic,it was just a private school and still one girl got pregnant she had to leave.

What was their excuse?

 

[Uvlollypop]

its grossly unfair

 

[leeanne]

Since I am Catholic, there are commandments and one is no sex before marriage. Many schools uphold these beliefs, but could be more strict in other countries.

I went to Catholic schools for most of my life, and there were some pregnant girls in high school. They didn't get kicked out. But, there are rules to each and every school.

I do sincerely hope that you finish your exams without anyone noticing your pregnancy and do entirely understand your concerns. Chances are you may not show at all or very much by the time your exams come.

I'd watch who you tell though. Don't let your friends in on your pregnancy because often the person you think you can trust is the one that cannot be trusted.

Best wishes!

 

[Spartacus]

Hey

Like Leeanne I went to a Catholic school and a girl in my year (blimey was so long ago 14 years ago pains me to say that!!) was pregnant and she was allowed to stay and do her exams no problem.

But like Leeanne said all schools are different. I think you are doing great staying at school and finishing your exams as that will help in getting yourself a career going after baby is born and at school is a great start for you hun.

Also, I totally agree with Leeanne not to tell any friends as that will add to your stress worrying if they will spill the beans.

I hope everything goes well for you and don't worry too much about the comments everyone has their own opinion and sometimes can be hard to swallow them but you have great support on here judging by the response you have received.

Only advice would be to tell your parents as you could do with the support hunny by the sounds of it I can only imagine it must be scary to tell your parents.

 

[Anababe]

Hey

Just want to wish you good luck in your pregnancy. You sound like a very sensible girl who just made a mistake. I respect your decision to keep the baby and i think you will do fine and turn out to be a great mum! It really is the best thing ever.

I am also very small.. and i didnt start showing properly (were i was showing even through baggy clothes) until i was about 5-6 months. It great that you want to get your school work done and there is nothing wrong with wanting to keep the pregnancy to yourself until you feel ready. I would say you should really think about telling your mum though, it is so much easier when you have that support.

Good luck hun and take care

xxx

 

[embojet]

Good luck with the rest of your pregnancy Ella. I hope that some of the comments you've received haven't put u off using the forum if you need advice. Let us all know how u get on xx

 

[babe2ooo]

hello there i just wanna say what ever you want to do you should feel happy, dont let anyone on here make you feel bad, you young and i know how hard this can be, everyone has there own problems and dont let anyone make you feel bad if you ever want 2 talk i'm here, just because there are people out there ttc for a baby they shouldnt make you feel bad they know better than that, some of the people comments on here have been a bit harsh and she is asking for help not for that, so hunny if you need anything pm me

 

[Sweetie]

Just wanted to add my two cents. I think that you are awesome for being brave and making the choices you have up to now, finishing school and such. I wish you the very best in all of this and hope to see you stick around. Congrats on taking some of the first steps to being an adult **hugs**

 

[missjess]

I agree on baggy clothes, they are wonderful to hide the bump! They're easy to find now since the fashion is pretty baggy. You probably won't have much of a bump in may sweetie, just wear a baggy top and you'll be all set ! Hope everything goes well