high hopes

[cole918]

So I am 2dpo and my hopes are already high... yesterday I had very small cramps and with all the reading I have done it says its possible for that to happen during implatation... I really hate to get my hopes up so soon tho cuz by the time af comes around (if she does) I will be so disappointed.... any of u ladies have any advice on how to hold off on getting my hopes to high????

 

[bexxc]

wish i had some better advice for you. for me, once my hopes get up there, it's hard to convince myself not to. but it's good to be positive. just try to occupy yourself with something else so you don't think about it as much. gl!

 

[Arimas]

Just focus on other things while staying positive, good luck and hope you get your BFP

 

[nevernormal]

Well... implantation usually happens 5dpo at the earliest, so more than likely you're just psyching yourself out at the moment! Sorry! But hey, you're still in the game! Hoping for a for you this cycle!!!

 

[cole918]

You guys are great thanks

 

[monalisa81]

I try to think and do other stuff in the 2WW.
Don't google what you feel.
For example the 2WW is the time I try to concentrate more on work and when I get home and during the weekend I cook. When I'm in the kitchen and occupied I distract myself. I try the recipes on jamieoliver.com. I just love his food. I baked the brownies from that site last week, they were outstanding!
That's my way of distracting myself from obsessing and googling.

 

[cole918]

Thanks that's great advice I so much don't like to cook but I love to bake... guess my husbands gunna get fat from all my new sweets lol