I'm high risk because I am over 35 among other reasons. In July my beautiful darling Lil Joe was born. He had a condition called Pulmonary Atresia. Basically his heart didn't form right. As we were leaving to rush from the hospital he was born in, to the hospital they life flighted him to, my dr. mentioned in passing we shouldn't get pregnant again. I know the nurse mentioned that they could see the baby when they started the C-section so I'm not sure if my uterus was thin or if it had ruptured partially. Our son lived 19 days and passed away at home in my husbands arms while we waited for the ambulance to arrive.
So here we are 6 months later and my cycle has been a mess, oops, we are pregnant again. I go the 23rd for my first appt. with a fetal maternal specialist to see what's going to happen. I've heard really good and really bad stories about uterine rupture etc. so I'm terrified.