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[Oasis717]

I'm really pleased you've run out of tests lol! I think you can drive yourself mad but id be the same! So hard when you've had so many losses, your scan is going to be great, you're gunna have a wonderful Xmas knowing your precious lo is growing everyday, I'm so happy for you xxx
I believe I'm 6 dpo too, I've been o on immediately around cd15 for 9 months now plus I've no spotting which I would have by now, just sore boobs which is normal for me, nothing else jumps out at me, I've been feeling a little off, a bit odd but that could be nothing so not mega hopeful but they do say Xmas is the time for miracles so I guess you never know xx

 

[Sunshine14]

Haha - just read ur post!! My honey is at the shops & I asked him to get one last 2 pack of digis lol :winkwink:- that's it then I promise!! ..... I just have to see it progress a bit & then I will be happy & it is so hard to agonise for another 10 days -- maybe the testing just helps to fill the time iykwim!! I read somewhere that there is a study of scottish women that says the 6 months after a mc u have more chance of healthy baby & less complications so I'm hoping that cos I had the mc that ended August that this is my sticky bean -- I'm just bracing myself mentally for hearing the news on 30th that there is no hb!! I really want my honey to come with me but we don't have a babysitter -- I don't want to go on my own -- I went on my own last time in August waiting to find a hb & kept having to go back again & I just don't want to do it again .......

AS for u hun u still have plenty of time for symptoms to appear xx & some of my PG's have had very little symptoms & every PG the symptoms are different - I know u really want ur xmas bfp & I really am praying u get it hun xxx if u don't though u have to keep positive Becks - we said we were in this for the long haul, whatever it takes to get a sticky healthy baba & u will get PG again with a sticky baba (U just had Brooklyn a year ago) u just have to be determined, persistent & don't get disillusioned -- I'm expecting to get another mmc at the scan so I'm sure I will be back with u again soon but if that happens I'm going to keep going cos we have to catch a lucky egg & that is all - I'm sending u big hugs hun stay positive no matter what happens xx & sending u loads of baby dust for ur bfp

 

[Sunshine14]

Yipee so excited! Just got 2-3 weeks on the digi test which has to be a good sign that the hcg is progressing in the right direction -- was expecting to still see 1-2 weeks so I'm over the moon -- just have to see a heartbeat now on the scan xxxx

 

[Oasis717]

Yay that's amazing I'm so pleased for you! See, all gunna be OK xxxx

 

[Sunshine14]

Thanks Becks - what dpo are you today hun?

 

[Oasis717]

Who knows lol ff has changed it so many times but I'm out whatever, spotting bright red this morning which is my signal every month its all over, I'll spot for a couple of days then AF. We are giving up now as after a year I just don't think its going to happen for us, I'm so pleased for both you ladies though. I'm chucking my opks and my thermometer and I guess what will be will be xxxxx

 

[Sunshine14]

Who knows lol ff has changed it so many times but I'm out whatever, spotting bright red this morning which is my signal every month its all over, I'll spot for a couple of days then AF. We are giving up now as after a year I just don't think its going to happen for us, I'm so pleased for both you ladies though. I'm chucking my opks and my thermometer and I guess what will be will be xxxxx

Ahh sweetie pie sorry to hear that u got af u have to do what's right for u babe but I still think ur very fertile (with the two cp's in last 12 months) & it could happen next month or the month after babe xx I'm on another thread with a lady who just turned 45 and she just got her BFP and is two day behind me!! so there is always hope - I think if u want that baba u can't give up - ur still young & fertile hun xx anyway u have to make the decision that is right for u babe -- take it easy hun I will miss ur company on B n B have a lovely christmas & new year & would be lovely if u feel like checking in now and then
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[Sunshine14]

Hi Luv and Nikki just a quick post to say Happy Christmas hope you have a lovely Christmas xxxxx

 

[Nikki1979]

Sunshine - I am so happy for you. Your little Christmas miracle is growing nicely. Next Christmas, you will have a family of 6 instead of 5.

Oasis - I am so sorry that the stupid witch showed up. I also second what sunshine said. Your rainbow will be with you soon.

Merry Christmas to both of you.

 

[Sunshine14]

Thanks Nikki - hope you had a lovely relaxing Christmas too xx I have my scan in 4 sleepies -- I just want it to come now as I just want to knwo either way now really - have enough of the wondering if there will be a hb or whether it's another mmc!

How did you get on? How many dpo are you hun?

 

[Sunshine14]

Hi Luv and Nikki hope ur both well xx had my scan today and it was 'inconclusive' & no intrauterine PG but there is a mass next to right ovary so they think it is probably an ectopic PG. I have no pain or bleeding and so they took bloods and have to go back New Years day so they can check the levels again and advise on next steps -- boo, hoo -- 5 PG's in past year and nothing to show for it -- so fed up!

Hope you two are both well xxx

 

[LuvallmyH]

Oh Sunshine, I am so sorry. It just isn't fair I hope you heal quickly and get your rainbow.

 

[Nikki1979]

Sunshine - I am so sorry honey. I was sure that this was your rainbow baby. Massive hugs to you

I pray that 2015 is kinder to you and gives you your take home baby.

 

[Sunshine14]

Thanks Luv and Nikki xx been back and forward to the hospital mostly every day for scans and blood to be taken. My hcg was 819 Tuesday, 890 on Thursday & 914 on Saturday -- I started bleeding yesterday and they are hopeful that will have made my hcg drop significantly. If it has gone up again tomorrow then I will probably have to have the injection to stop the PG growing or my tube might rupture - very worrying time, I'm constantly assessing my pain levels on the right hand side to make sure the tube is not rupturing & I have to run to hospital. I'm praying it has dropped tomorrow xx

How are both of you doing? When is ur scan luv? Nikki how did u get on - what cd are u on?

 

[LuvallmyH]

Thanks Luv and Nikki xx been back and forward to the hospital mostly every day for scans and blood to be taken. My hcg was 819 Tuesday, 890 on Thursday & 914 on Saturday -- I started bleeding yesterday and they are hopeful that will have made my hcg drop significantly. If it has gone up again tomorrow then I will probably have to have the injection to stop the PG growing or my tube might rupture - very worrying time, I'm constantly assessing my pain levels on the right hand side to make sure the tube is not rupturing & I have to run to hospital. I'm praying it has dropped tomorrow xx

How are both of you doing? When is ur scan luv? Nikki how did u get on - what cd are u on?

I'm so sorry. I hope things can work out naturally.
My scan is tomorrow. I'm excited and nervous - thank you for asking.

 

[Sunshine14]

Hi Luv - did you have the scan yet hun? Hope it was good news and baby growing well???? Update when you can sweetie x

Afm - I woke up this morning & felt like 'me' again & all my pg sypmtoms had reduced - went for scan and bloods & PG has reduced in the tube and my bloods are down from 914 to 167 -- they said I had miscarried on my own & PG is reabsorbing -- never so happy for hcg to drop!! They said chances of the tube rupturing now were 'slim' yipeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee -- so relieved that's it's all over - such a stressful time!!

Nikki how are you doing?

 

[LuvallmyH]

I'm so happy things are working out naturally. I know that makes a huge difference in your recovery time. I hope the new year brings you a baby in your arms.

Afm, I did have my scan. Hb was 155, nuchal fold was 2.4, baby measures 13w 5d! I'm 12w 6d. The sonographer asked if we wanted to know the gender. She said it was a boy! The nub is pointing straight up & the potty shot looked very boy to me too. It feels weird to know already! Maybe because he's bigger it was easier to see?



The nub

 

[Sunshine14]

ahh congratulations Luv so so happy for u hun and that is a great hb! Well done u and take it easy now for the rest of the pregnancy - I have everything crossed that you have your baby in your arms in 6ish months hun xx a beautiful ittle boy yipeee!! Big hugs and stay well xx

 

[Nikki1979]

Congratulations Luv - so happy to see a healthy baby boy. What were your kids hoping for? My DS is hoping for a baby boy - hopefully I can give him that.

Sunshine - how are you feeling? Any pain/bleeding?

AFM - am on cd 10. Shld be ovulating in the next few days ( most likely Saturday). It just so happens, we are having people over and they will staying for a few days so bedding then is out of the question. Hubby doesnt like doing it with people in the next room.
I will be seeing my RE next week and she will have all my results ready including DHs semen analysis. She might give me some clomid to help things along.

 

[Sis4Us]

Hello sunshine I too am going thru the same thing a suspected Ectopic I refused to terminate w the shot and my numbers went down on there own finally got a negative test yesterday

My issue is no spotting or bleeding yet but I was taking a ton of P and other Supps trying to help that LO so idk! I did get some spotting or almost like a period early on but my HCG was going up!!

I'm at a loss w 3 losses last year also it's so frustrating the only good thing is that the last 2 we conceived naturally w Supps so I hope 2015 is our year!!