Hm..

[lauram_92]

So this girl I know lost a baby at 20 weeks, the baby was found to have spina bifida & fluid to the brain. Tbh I am not sure if she chose to stop the pregnancy or not - because I know it was an option for her & I don't really speak to her anymore. Anyway, I was looking through Facebook the other day and had put up pictures of her daughter. I cried so much seeing them & I just don't think Facebook is really appropriate for that - I mean I wasn't expecting to see it and it was so upsetting.

Her Facebook status today was

"them moments your on your own and can't roll a joint, thanks to fake nails"

 

[x__amour]

Oh my goodness...
RIP LO.

 

[mayb_baby]

That's awful

 

[abbSTAR]

stupid girl! (status)

Fly high little one

 

[candicex]

Aww

 

[vinteenage]

 

[Rhio92]

RIP Baby xxx



As for Facebook, that's really her choice. I've seen some of the ladies in the loss sections talking about putting their baby's pictures on Facebook, and some of them like to put pics up, just as they do with their children who aren't angels

 

[Desi's_lost]

I can't really blame her for wanting a release after losing a baby at 20 weeks...

 

[~RedLily~]

I don't see the problem. She can put what she likes on her profile, she might find comfort in sharing the pictures with friends.
The status, not my kind of thing but it might just be a distraction for her or a way of coping.

 

[JLFKJS]

Honestly seeing pictures of dead babies makes me sick to my stomach. I feel for her loss but I don't want to see it. I remember a friend of mine posted photos of her loss while I was pregnant and it literally made me sick for days, on top of that I worried myself that I was going to lose her the rest of the pregnancy.

RIP LO

 

[fantastica]

Honestly seeing pictures of dead babies makes me sick to my stomach. I feel for her loss but I don't want to see it. I remember a friend of mine posted photos of her loss while I was pregnant and it literally made me sick for days, on top of that I worried myself that I was going to lose her the rest of the pregnancy.

RIP LO

I'm sure seeing pictures of your living baby upsets her too. It's still her baby, and honestly why should she hide something so precious just incase it worries someone else?


Poor girl, it must be a heartbreaking to go through

I really don't blame her for wanting to smoke a joint.

 

[lucy_x]

Honestly seeing pictures of dead babies makes me sick to my stomach. I feel for her loss but I don't want to see it. I remember a friend of mine posted photos of her loss while I was pregnant and it literally made me sick for days,
RIP LO

I understand your feelings but those babies are theyre CHILDREN, they have a right to post pictures of them as much as you or i do, and i think your choice of words is very unkind. I hope no angel mummys have to read that.

RIP LO

 

[AirForceWife7]

Rest in Peace

I had a friend who put pictures of her little boy on facebook ... he was stillborn at 21 weeks The pictures made me so sad to look at because I can only imagine how hard that would be now that I have Brenna .. but I think she takes comfort in them. I would definitely want some kind of memorabilia if that ever happened to me x

 

[cabbagebaby]

RIP LO

 

[Marzipan_girl]

If she was smoking a joint whilst pregnant, then THAT would be an issue. But her baby is dead. FFS I'd be doing anything I could to try and get away from the pain of losing a child. Whether or not I'd write it on fb is another matter, as I know i'd just be judged as has been proven.

 

[Nervousmomtob]

Poor LO. fly high little angel

I know if I lost a baby I'd be pretty messed up.. Can't say I blame her for wanting a joint the poor girl. I wish I could give her a big hug.

 

[Char.due.jan]

RIP lo
As for the pictures, as some other ladies have said it's still her baby and it's her choice whether she would like to share pictures. Pictures of other babies probably upset her too.

And as for the status, I don't blame her! If she was pregnant and writing a status like that I'd be sickened, but she's not, she's just lost her baby. A baby that would've meant the world to her, do remember that..

 

[JLFKJS]

Wow really? I'm sorry that seeing a stillborn makes me so upset that it makes me sick to my stomach I don't see how that makes me unkind? I never said that she was sick or the pictures were sick or that she shouldn't post the pictures or that she should hide it or that I don't have sympathy for her. I just posted a similar situation that I had been in along with the OP. Jeeze

 

[Desi's_lost]

Wow really? I'm sorry that seeing a stillborn makes me so upset that it makes me sick to my stomach I don't see how that makes me unkind? I never said that she was sick or the pictures were sick or that she shouldn't post the pictures or that she should hide it or that I don't have sympathy for her. I just posted a similar situation that I had been in along with the OP. Jeeze

I think the other girls are just concerned for the ladies on here that have suffered loses. Could you imagine how you would feel if you had lost a baby and someone said the sight of that baby made their stomach turn? Thats all.

 

[JLFKJS]

See its not the sight that made my stomach turn it was the thought of losing my own baby after seeing pictures is all.