Hm..

[hot tea]

If I lost my baby and weed would actually help distract me or offer some relief, I would get absplutely RIPPED. No one should judge her for that imo.

 

[hot tea]

Also if you feel so terribly just looking at the pictures of a dead baby, imagine how she must feel. C'mon...

 

[Strawberrymum]

RIP LO x

 

[xx~Lor~xx]

RIP little one..

 

[Jellyt]

You don't know how much it hurts when people act as though your baby doesnt exist. I do and I couldn't go on Facebook for ages after we lost violet. I couldn't bear all of the pictures and posts of other people's babies knowing that people would just be uncomfortable if I posted mine. It seemed so unfair. People remember Evelyn's birthday but forget Violets and she shouldn't have to hide that her baby existed. she should post pictures of her baby if that's what she wants to do. Yes, they may be difficult to look at but how do you think it feels for her?! They're still her baby no matter how long they
lived xxx

 

[lucy_x]

See its not the sight that made my stomach turn it was the thought of losing my own baby after seeing pictures is all.

No offence but this statement in your previous post said otherwise

Honestly seeing pictures of dead babies makes me sick to my stomach.

As i say i can understand your feelings, But having been a member of this forum for a long time, and having seen and cried for ladies in the loss section, I now know how to word my posts effectivly and without hurt when refering to loss so as to not upset any Angel mummys who may be reading ,

I can understand that seeing those pictures make you so upset it makes you sick, (trust me, iv cried buckets for some people with losses) but the way in which you worded your statement didnt sound like that at first, However i do understand when people come accross on the internet its always so difficult to tell what they mean/how they mean it, So im sorry if i took it the wrong way x x

 

[annawrigley]

You don't know how much it hurts when people act as though your baby doesnt exist. I do and I couldn't go on Facebook for ages after we lost violet. I couldn't bear all of the pictures and posts of other people's babies knowing that people would just be uncomfortable if I posted mine. It seemed so unfair. People remember Evelyn's birthday but forget Violets and she shouldn't have to hide that her baby existed. she should post pictures of her baby if that's what she wants to do. Yes, they may be difficult to look at but how do you think it feels for her?! They're still her baby no matter how long they
lived xxx

I didn't know you had a late loss with Violet, I'm sorry to hear that xxx

 

[lauram_92]

Probably phrased my first post wrong, I understand her wanting to put a picture up but I wish I had some warning before I seen her. I honestly would have chosen not to see the baby because I found it so, so, unbelievably upsetting and I couldn't stop crying. I really, really feel so, so sorry for the girl. I couldn't even imagine how she feels.

She did smoke, and do drugs throughout her pregnancy as well.

 

[lily123]

I can't blame her for smoking a joint to be honest, a week after i lost my son, i totally wasted myself on vodka and cocaine. Not the best idea i know, but until you've been in that situation yourself, you'll never understand. People deal with pain differently.

 

[Desi's_lost]

Probably phrased my first post wrong, I understand her wanting to put a picture up but I wish I had some warning before I seen her. I honestly would have chosen not to see the baby because I found it so, so, unbelievably upsetting and I couldn't stop crying. I really, really feel so, so sorry for the girl. I couldn't even imagine how she feels.

She did smoke, and do drugs throughout her pregnancy as well.

That makes me lose my sympathy for her. Poor poor lo!

 

[emmylou92]

Rip lo.

 

[fantastica]

I understand how you feel, but couldn't you just not have looked? Maybe she'd like a warning before seeing your living baby? It is upsetting to think of anyone going through something like that, and seeing it makes it so real, but to her that is her beautiful baby, and a picture of a baby shouldn't need to come with a warning just incase you upset someone else. X

 

[lauram_92]

Don't really want to have an argument about something like this..

 

[fantastica]

Yeah you're right, sorry. X