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I want to offer hope. To all the single mums, and single mums to be!
I've been single for almost 2 years.
I got pregnant by a prick of a man, a complete druggy who just wanted to go to the pub and do a few lines and lie on his ass all day playing on his XBOX.
I left him when i was 6 months pregnant, it took a while to get over him completely, not that i was still in love with him, but to get over the pain and hurt of what he was and my situation.
I spent a year concentrating on my baby, didn't try and lose the baby weight, or go out and meet people, just stayed inside and learnt what it was to be a mum. Last november i decided it was time to start to lose the weight and after a few false starts, i did eventually start losing weight.
Then in January i decided i wanted a man, maybe just a few dates, maybe just to see what was out there.
I had a couple of bad first dates, actually, not even 'bad' as they were nice enough guys, but i had just learnt that i had become really picky, that not only did i want a man for me, but someone who would be a father figure to my daughter.
So i spoke to more men, searched, dated, and now, i've found Lee.
And he is amazing. Everything i could have wanted and more. Perfect father figure, adores both me and my daughter, and i really think this is it. He is my future.
So i am here to offer hope. To all single mums, all single mums to be.
You can do this alone, you will be fine, and one day, when you're ready, you don't have to do it alone forever, you will find love again. You will find someone who wants you, and wants your child/children. There are good men out there, better men and you will have an amazing life and fall in love and live happily ever after. Fairy Tales do happen.
Just don't let the fear of your past, or fear of being hurt, stop you from a possible amazing future. Live fast, Love passionately, and only regret the things you do do, rather than the things you don't x
I've been single for almost 2 years.
I got pregnant by a prick of a man, a complete druggy who just wanted to go to the pub and do a few lines and lie on his ass all day playing on his XBOX.
I left him when i was 6 months pregnant, it took a while to get over him completely, not that i was still in love with him, but to get over the pain and hurt of what he was and my situation.
I spent a year concentrating on my baby, didn't try and lose the baby weight, or go out and meet people, just stayed inside and learnt what it was to be a mum. Last november i decided it was time to start to lose the weight and after a few false starts, i did eventually start losing weight.
Then in January i decided i wanted a man, maybe just a few dates, maybe just to see what was out there.
I had a couple of bad first dates, actually, not even 'bad' as they were nice enough guys, but i had just learnt that i had become really picky, that not only did i want a man for me, but someone who would be a father figure to my daughter.
So i spoke to more men, searched, dated, and now, i've found Lee.
And he is amazing. Everything i could have wanted and more. Perfect father figure, adores both me and my daughter, and i really think this is it. He is my future.
So i am here to offer hope. To all single mums, all single mums to be.
You can do this alone, you will be fine, and one day, when you're ready, you don't have to do it alone forever, you will find love again. You will find someone who wants you, and wants your child/children. There are good men out there, better men and you will have an amazing life and fall in love and live happily ever after. Fairy Tales do happen.
Just don't let the fear of your past, or fear of being hurt, stop you from a possible amazing future. Live fast, Love passionately, and only regret the things you do do, rather than the things you don't x
Congratulations for finding someone who's better than your baby's father x
