hormone crash after ERPC

[Fit_Mama2Be]

Hopie I'll keep praying for you and your parents...I really hope things look up for you soon.

Thanks Hopie, Blu and Jaspie for all your kind words and encouragement. I need to stay positive since we are trying this month - taking my first OPK today even though it is early!

My birthday is next month and guess what I want? To be pregnant again, LOL. I know the odds of it are low but it would be the best birthday present ever! I would love to be one of the lucky ones who are super fertile after a loss...fx.

 

[jaspie]

Good luck this month fit! There's no reason why that can't be you! I'll keep everything crossed that we're celebrating your bfp in a couple of weeks time!!

 

[Blu10]

Good luck fit!
Im not convinced im ovulating thia cycle, ive had really strong ovulation pain, ewcm, tingly boobs etc with all other cycles off the BCP. I had a few hours of what i thought was EWCM on friday but I think it was just leftover sperm (totally tmi im sorry!!). Hope my cycle isnt going to screw up now x

 

[jaspie]

How come you're not convinced Blu? It all sounds very good to me
Do you chart or use opks?
Or do you mean you haven't had all of that this cycle? Xx

 

[Blu10]

Ive not had that this month jaspie. CD18 today, have AF type discomfort. I dont temp or OPK as prefer relaxed method of TTC. Weve DTD lots anyway so if i have O'd without knowing we may have caught it.
I have job interview next week eeeek z

 

[jaspie]

Ohh i see. I didn't get my usual ov symptoms last month but I'm sure I ovulated due to temping. I only had 1 day of ewcm and watery creamy the rest of the time and only had a light ovulation twinges until 1 day i had more typical ov pain but it was after I thought I'd ovulated so god knows! I think it's just our bodies trying to regulate so am sure you ovulated and your timing is good! Fingers crossed you catch it! This group needs another rainbow!

 

[Blu10]

It sure does, hope we all have healthy rainbows and less stress really soon x

 

[Blu10]

I take it back having left sided twinges today and ewcm. DH is in for a treat lol

 

[Fit_Mama2Be]

Woo hoo, that's great Blu!

This is my first month ever charting and tracking ovulation so my DH is getting some every second day. He is a happy man, LOL.

 

[jaspie]

Yeah Blu!! Go go go! !

 

[Fit_Mama2Be]

Jaspie I betcha May is your lucky month once your DF is up and about!

 

[jaspie]

Ohhh i hope so! Fingers crossed i can't see him being well enough atm but a lot can happen in 4 weeks plus even if we have to wait until June I'm strangely ok with that, as long as he gets better

 

[bernie86]

so glad to hear you all are gettin busy! And Jaspie good for you being ok with waiting if you have to, so important for your man to heal!!!! Hopie- looking forward to an update, Ive been praying for you and your family! This little Peanut is definitely starting to make it's presence known and Im so grateful for symptoms! its really helping ease my mind... I know Im extra emotional right now but Im just having so much trouble letting my self get excited or even think about the future because I dont want to be crushed again. I need to see this kids HB soon and get past the ten week mark already!

 

[Blu10]

Are u going to get an early scan Bernie? So exciting x
I def think its fertile time but got home and DH had a crappy day at work and is in a grump so think it will take some convincing tonight! 😑 might run us a nice warm bath once DS is asleep then see how it goes.
Glad OH seems better Jaspie and glad your DTD lots Fit! X

 

[bernie86]

Better tell him to suck it up and get down to business! hahaha. My scan is scheduled for the 13th so i will be 7 weeks... last time my Dr. scanned at 6 weeks and saw a HB, but he said because you cant always see the heart beat at 6 weeks he'd rather wait a week so that we dont get scared if we dont see it. Im just really emotional and unable to not think of last time. I think Im going to tell my mom on Easter Sunday, so I can have someone else besides my hubby... hes great but hes just as nervous so its hard for him really comfort me when he needs it too

 

[Blu10]

I dont think men really understand it like we do Bernie, I know my DH doesnt get it either. Im sure it will all be absolutely fine this time, time always drags when your waiting for a scan doesnt it. I had a scan at 7.5 weeks with both of my last pregnancies, its gard to believe that the kidney shaped blob is now DS - amazing! Keep us posted.
I managed to seduce DH last nite, he soon snapped out of his grump. Ive got ov pain again this morning so think im just ovulating a few days later than usual which is much better than not at all 👍
Feeling a little stressed about my job interview whilst TTC and wondered if we should delay for a few months if I were to get the job but I really dont want to wait any longer especially when I should be half way there now x

 

[bernie86]

Yes I agree Blu... its different for men, the whole process. Its not his fault, and he really is so supportive and I see him getting more attached each day even though he told me in the beginning hes excited but cant get attached until we get to 10 weeks. He's given the baby a little nick name and I catch him putting his hand on my tummy when he comes to bed and thinks im sleeping.... I will never get why they think they need to be so tough! I've been feeling better mentally too... I decided to give all my worrying to god and prove that I really trust him!

I really think that its great that you are going for the job! and I dont think you should wait to try, just live your life if it happens. you will get your maternity leave and everything will be ok. and If you are just doing the try and see what happens route its kinda fun to leave it up to fate

 

[Blu10]

Awww cute! Im looking forward to being preggers again now ☺
Are you still feeling sick? X

 

[bernie86]

I bet you will be soon enough and yes I'm still sick, It seems to be getting stronger and stronger each day. Smells are mostly the trigger or too full or too hungry so I'm working on getting used to multiple small meals a day. The hardest part is the energy level actually.. if only I could nap at my desk haha. But Im happy to have any symptom I get! it may be hard but I appreciate them now...

 

[Fit_Mama2Be]

Good luck at your interview Blu, you're going to rock it!! I say keep trying too and everything will work out how it's meant to. Glad you seduced your DH!

Bernie glad to hear your symptoms are going strong! When I was preggers I was exhausted too - I could barely keep my eyes open or string a coherent sentence together half the time. That is cute about your DH touching your belly. I'm sure he hurt terribly too when you lost your little one, I know my DH did even though he tried to be strong for my sake.