hormone crash after ERPC

[jaspie]

Well that sounds much more promising! Maybe you just found out super early, people do find out at 3 weeks. Keeping everything crossed for you that it's just implantation bleeding and a late ov xx

 

[Blu10]

Thanks Jaspie, no further bleeding but we will see xx

 

[hopie2015]

Great to hear, Blu. Fingers crossed for you that was implantation bleeding and late ov. Take good care! xxxx

 

[hopie2015]

Blu- also thinking...will your doctor test your betas on Monday and then again in a couple of days to see the increase? (also perhaps progesterone level, if you are wondering on that).

Hope you're having a restful night.

Fit- how are you?
Thinking of you, Bernie and hope all is well.

 

[Blu10]

They dont seem to test bloods here Hopie, not sure why. Still no more bleeding and still have symptoms so we will see. Ill keep you ladied posted xx

 

[hopie2015]

Hope you're feeling good today, Blu and all looks good! Keep us posted.
Hope everyone had had a lovely weekend. My mom's doctor gave her encouraging news today and and I over the moon happy! Praying tomorrow's test results look as good.

 

[jaspie]

So glad to hear your good news about your mom hopie!!! Hope today's is as good too!

Blu how are you feeling? Really hope everything is okay

Afm i went wedding dress shopping with my bridesmaids on Saturday and omg it was the best! So much fun. Found 5 i really really like! Going back to re try on with my mum next month

We booked our holiday and we're going to Tenerife on Saturday!! Super excited!!

I really want to ttc this month and am due to ovulate this week but OH's back is sore again and he wants to look after it this week ready for holiday so i haven't broached the subject yet. Considering waiting for my opk to be positive and just seeing if he's up for trying one really well timed bd. Fingers crossed but I'm not too hopeful for this month tbh!
Hope everyone else is having a lovely bank holiday and you're all ok

 

[Blu10]

Hey ladies, no more bleeding since that one episode on thursday. Ive looked back at when i think i ovulated and my original dates are definitely out by a week so i found out very early. I didnt ovulate until CD22 so think i was set for a 35day cycle meaning im actually 6 weeks tomorrow not 7. I have still got sore boobs and really tired so keeping everything crossed that my xmas pudding is still baking.

Hopie Im thrilled about your mum, hope dads ok too?

Jaspie im so excited you have started to look at dresses. I remember it well its so lovely. Hope you get to DTD very soon and catch the eggy 👍
Xx

 

[jaspie]

Oh i see so you calculated from your lmp which would have been out by a week cos you ovulated late. Yay it sounds really good then Blu! Happy for you! Next scan is this Friday?

 

[Blu10]

Scan is on friday so it may still be very early to see much if all is ok but if its not ok at least i know and can deal with it. Keep everything crossed for me please girls x

 

[jaspie]

Everything crossed here. Praying all is perfect. Having symptoms still is a great sign and after what you said about your ovulation I am really hopeful for you xx

 

[Fit_Mama2Be]

Hopie glad your mom is doing better and hope you get more good news!!

Everything crossed for you Blu! If you O'd late that sounds promising...I didn't O until CD 21 so if I went by my lmp my dates would be way off.

Jaspie that vacay sounds amazing and I hope your DF is feeling well enough for some lovin' when you get your +opk. Dress shopping sounds like it was a lot of fun!

Thinking of you Bernie, hope everything goes great tomorrow!

FIL's funeral was on Friday, so that was a sad day. My poor MIL. Everyone got quite drunk after, thankfully so much so that they didn't seem to notice I wasn't drinking.

I told my mom about the pregnancy but am not telling anyone else and neither is DH. Last time there was drama with my MIL. She swore to DH she wouldn't tell a soul then called back less than 2 minutes later to say she had already told someone, WTH? Then when DH got mad she got all huffy and was like "well I didn't have to tell you I told, I could have just lied." Grrr.

After the funeral a friend of the family who should not have even known about my last pregnancy told me how sorry she was to hear about my baby...so pretty sure MIL told absolutely everyone. I'm not even telling DH because he'd be really mad at her which I don't want because we just lost FIL...but I'm so glad we're not telling her this time.

 

[Blu10]

Thanks both! Fit i dont know why i didnt think about it before, so silly. If all is ok then we wont be due that far apart afterall.

Im glad to hear that the funeral wemt well and sorry about MIL. Why do some people always think that your news is theirs to share. My mum told a few random people about my miscarraige who i wouldnt have told but I didnt have the strength to argue it out back then.

 

[hopie2015]

Thanks so much Jaspie! Hoping for another good day here at the hospital with my mom!
My dad is barely functioning. Hoping he gets better soon with the better news. Will take him to new doctor this week for his high blood pressure, etc.
Your holiday sounds amazing. You leave this Saturday? I have such a good baby feeling for you very, very soon!

Blu- that sounds soo promising now!! Yay!! SO happy to hear this!! Dates were off and still have symptoms and no more bleeding! Everything crossed for you for Friday's scan.

Fit- I hope your DH is doing as okay as can be. Good you are holding off on telling MIL based on what you had to put up with last time. I've heard many people can be like that! How are you feeling?

I've been arguing with fiance. I heard it's normal in times of crisis, etc. I don't know.. I can't even think of ttc'ing.. All I want to do is sleep. I know I am entirely wiped out, guys. Hope this lifts soon.

Bernie- we're all thinking about you.

Keep posted everyone and take good care~

 

[jaspie]

Yes Bernie good luck tomorrow! Can't wait for your update! Hope you get a lovely pic!

Hope your dad gets better soon Hopie. And really hope this lifts for you, you've been going through the mill recently. It sounds like you're both under a lot of pressure, have you thought about doing counselling or going to the doctors and seeing if there's anything they can do for you? I don't know what your feelings on that are, but my OH has started anti ds and they're really helping him. Thanks for having a good baby feeling for me! Hope so

Hey fit, glad you shared with your mom and absolutely understand why you don't want to tell your mil. Some people!

 

[hopie2015]

Thanks so much Jaspie. I sure hope so too. My mom didn't get more good kidney news we were waiting for to hear today. Praying for a miraculous healing overnight and better test results tomorrow.
It's a good suggestion..someone else mentioned maybe taking an AD to me.. It is just so much to deal with that have been going through. I might have to consider it. I try to avoid all meds, but I just don't know anymore. My dad has had to be put on one. I am so glad it is benefiting OH. That is great!
How is he feeling this week? Sunshine and holiday will sure help his back healing along nicely!

Thinking of you Bernie!

Yes Bernie good luck tomorrow! Can't wait for your update! Hope you get a lovely pic!

Hope your dad gets better soon Hopie. And really hope this lifts for you, you've been going through the mill recently. It sounds like you're both under a lot of pressure, have you thought about doing counselling or going to the doctors and seeing if there's anything they can do for you? I don't know what your feelings on that are, but my OH has started anti ds and they're really helping him. Thanks for having a good baby feeling for me! Hope so

Hey fit, glad you shared with your mom and absolutely understand why you don't want to tell your mil. Some people!

 

[Blu10]

Hey my girlies, hope everyones ok? Im eager for an update from Bernie!
Sorry to hear your arguing with DF Hopie, DH and I have been having a few spats too, mainly because he doesnt get why I feel so tired all the time and I dont feel hes being supportive. Men can be a real pain in the butt. Any more news on your mum?

How are you Jaspie, must be approaching eggy time, hope OH back is better 😉

Fit I hope youre feeling ok and DH is coping ok after FILs funeral, i tend to find thats when it hits home.

As for me things remain much the same. Ive had some niggley pelvic discomfort today and my long standing back issue raised its ugly head over the weekend so im feeling a bit sleep deprived but theres been no further bleeding. My boobs dont feel quite as sore today which im not reading too much into but Ill be glad once friday arrives and I have a better idea where I stand. I dont know how this sounds really but Im kind of drained with the whole TTC#2 malarky and feel if his pregnancy isnt meant to be then ive kind of made my peace with that already and if all is well then of course I will be delighted. Ive decided that if this isnt our rainbow baby im going to get back to the gym and squeeze in some fitness classes and aim to lose a stone then revisit trying again next year. I think ill just need to settle into my new job and see what the rest of 2015 brings ☺xx

 

[hopie2015]

Hi!
Yes Bernie- we are all so eager to hear from you! Hope all is going great.

Fit- how are you feeling.. I'm thinking symptoms might be picking up pretty soon? How is your hubby doing?

Thanks Blu. Doctor gave my mom some encouraging news today. Really has lifted our spirits! We just finished our delicious hospital dinner together...ha! Praying like crazy the good test results continue.
I think your attitude about this baby is AMAZING. 100% right on! I'm taking lessons from you. Friday will bring clarity for you and I am so glad you feel a sense of peace.
Sorry you are having some spats with DH too. Seems most common fight I hear -- ladies not thinking their guys are being supportive enough! I know fiance is supportive usually, but a lot of times it is support in a different way than I really need. If that makes sense.
Good news is we haven't fought now for 24 hours. ))
I'm sure it will all settle down for you guys soon too. Only normal you feel exhausted and I hope your back feels better soon.. Gosh, I can relate to that pain.

Looking forward to everyone's updates!

 

[Fit_Mama2Be]

Hi girls! That's great that you got good news Hopie, you and your family deserve it!

Blu I think your attitude is great. I need to borrow some of it!

Nothing too crazy going on here. My nose is stuffy, I feel fatigued and I pee constantly. My boobs are a bit sore, but not as bad as they got in my last pregnancy. But then I don't think I even knew I was pregnant yet at this stage of my last pregnancy.

I am 5 weeks today. Oh, and my left boob has grown bigger than the right one, definitely something new. I asked DH yesterday if it had gotten bigger again as I looked even more lopsided and when he was done laughing he said yes, it did seem even bigger.

Can't wait to hear from Bernie!

 

[jaspie]

I agree with hopie and fit, blu. Your attitude is awesome! Fingers crossed for Friday's scan i really hope you get good news.

Hopie that's such great news! I'm so glad for you and keeping everything crossed that the good results continue

Fit glad all is well with you! Despite the crazy boob haha!

Also looking forward to Bernie's update!

I'm still waiting to ovulate, opks are gradually darkening and getting a light line on them and I've been getting twinges all week. Cm is watery but no ewcm yet so I think I'll ovulate on Friday or Saturday. Which could be good because if it's on Saturday we'll be ttc on holiday or it could be bad because if it's Fri we're staying with our friends near the airport on Friday and OH will not want to ttc in their flat! Also he has physio today and his back is usually sore after that so really I'm not sure if it'll happen, will have to see how it affects him. The uncertainty sucks i wish we could just have sex when we want! I get excited thinking it could happen and then have to reign myself in. Oh well we'll get there.