gypsymom
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Sorry for the length...
So my DH is a very attractive man, I am fully aware I lucked out in the total hottie department. And in the past when girls at bars have hit on him it hasn't bothered me because not only does he blow every single one of them off, but i am totally secure in our marriage and know that he loves only me. The only time I've ever gotten jealous pre-pregnancy is when his employee's get crushes on him, and it never fails that at least two girls will get crushes on him (he manages a restaurant and is the kinda boss where he's friendly and joking and respectful), I mean one girl even got mad at him and refused to talk to him for two weeks because she was "completely in love with him and can't believe he hasn't left your wife yet" (now the twisted part of this is I worked with this girl for a few weeks before my DH transferred to her restaurant and she was so sweet to me and knew who my DH was, what a two-faced witch. but I digress) he's had employees stalk him before too. But even then I usually got angry as opposed to jealous because he never tried to hide these things from me and the girls were making fools of themselves trying to break up a happy marriage.
Anyway, for the last few weeks I've gotten SUPER jealous of females giving my DH attention. One of his employees who used to date DH's bf asked if he was going to karaoke tonight, which is a totally innocent question but I immedietly wanted to smack this girl. And DH is transferring to a new restaurant on wednesday so there is this whole new slew of girls who could/will develop crushes on him. I'm worried I'm going to snap at him or one of his employee's since I'm soooo jealous lately and sooo hormonal.
It's stupid, because he's never given me reason not to trust him and is in fact the perfect loving, doting husband who is so excited to be having his first child. I guess this isn't so much a question as a venting and sharing of feelings. Thanks for listening...
So my DH is a very attractive man, I am fully aware I lucked out in the total hottie department. And in the past when girls at bars have hit on him it hasn't bothered me because not only does he blow every single one of them off, but i am totally secure in our marriage and know that he loves only me. The only time I've ever gotten jealous pre-pregnancy is when his employee's get crushes on him, and it never fails that at least two girls will get crushes on him (he manages a restaurant and is the kinda boss where he's friendly and joking and respectful), I mean one girl even got mad at him and refused to talk to him for two weeks because she was "completely in love with him and can't believe he hasn't left your wife yet" (now the twisted part of this is I worked with this girl for a few weeks before my DH transferred to her restaurant and she was so sweet to me and knew who my DH was, what a two-faced witch. but I digress) he's had employees stalk him before too. But even then I usually got angry as opposed to jealous because he never tried to hide these things from me and the girls were making fools of themselves trying to break up a happy marriage.
Anyway, for the last few weeks I've gotten SUPER jealous of females giving my DH attention. One of his employees who used to date DH's bf asked if he was going to karaoke tonight, which is a totally innocent question but I immedietly wanted to smack this girl. And DH is transferring to a new restaurant on wednesday so there is this whole new slew of girls who could/will develop crushes on him. I'm worried I'm going to snap at him or one of his employee's since I'm soooo jealous lately and sooo hormonal.
It's stupid, because he's never given me reason not to trust him and is in fact the perfect loving, doting husband who is so excited to be having his first child. I guess this isn't so much a question as a venting and sharing of feelings. Thanks for listening...