literally since the day after i told my oh i was pregnant things have been rubbish between us. I've since found out that he's addicted to cocaine and that the woman from work who he was 'friends' with was actually supplying him and he was 'manipulating her friendship' to get what he wanted. we all know what he means by that. So it's been going on for a whole year now he pretty much abandoned me when i was pregnant and i even had to give birth with my mum becuase he couldn't possibly come home from 'work'. is being a single parent really that tough? i don't know what to do